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How Dominant Women and Submissive Women can have Fun with BDSM

BDSM for Submissive and Dominant Women
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BDSM can be described as a type of sex where partners make use of restraints such as handcuffs, ropes, tied scarves etc and punishment using whips, paddles, spanking and so on during intercourse. The erotic practice also involves things as such as role playing, dominance and submission. People who practice this in their relationships definitely find it exciting and fun and say that it can help a person focus on senses to the sexual act in itself. It is mostly predicated on mutual consent, trust and having fun. Both dominant and submissive women can have loads of fun in this lifestyle as you will discover below.

For the dominant woman in these types of relationships, they get to enjoy an active role either in the session or even in the entire relationship as being on top. This usually involves the infliction on pain, subjugation and degradation. There are a few times when they do not get to act on what they want but actually fulfill the needs of the person at the bottom also known as the submissive one. However most of the time, they get to come up with the rules and have power on how the entire session will roll out. They can only stop if both partners have agreed on a safe word.

By getting to be in command, the dominant woman in these kinds of relationships also gets to fulfill their innermost desires which leave them sexually satisfied and very happy at the end of the day. This is mostly determined by the personality of a person as there are some ladies who only like to be on top of things and thus it plays it really well when it comes to bdsm bedroom affairs.

For the submissive ladies in these kinds of relationships, they also get to enjoy and fulfill their sexual desires by being the persons at the bottom. These are generally people who like to please people and obedient and also get happiness from pleasing other individuals. In addition to this the submissive women also enjoy the type of discipline that is brought about by this kind of sexual act as they greatly enjoy erotic humiliation and are more than willing to submit to the person who wants to have their way with them.

However, not all the submissive women in these relationships are meek and willing to take everything that comes to them when they are lying down. This is because there are some who derive joy from trying to incur punishments from the dominant partner by misbehaving or even provoking them. The scenario where a person is in more control brings out some level of excitement that both partners thoroughly enjoy. The submissive ladies also make the dominant persons to feel like they are some gods or goddesses by handing over their sexual expression to them. This is because they give them the power to make sure that they also feel good in the process so that everyone is highly satisfied at the end of the day. For a beginners guide reading stories on the subject here: BDSM stories can help point you in the right direction.

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