How do I know if he is the one? You find your mate by eliminating those from your life who you know are NOT the one! You may be dating and ready for marriage but still not sure if he is right for you. If you are unsure about what his role in your life should be, guess what? He is NOT the one.
It's a lot easier to notice red flags than it is to recognize subtle hints of confirmation. Be honest with yourself. If your'e undeniably attracted to his six-pack and toned arms but are turned off when he uses his lips to lie to you, he is NOT the one. If you think that he's financially fit and could be an excellent provider for your future family, yet his spending habits contradict yours: he's not going to change and he is NOT the one!
Subtle hints such as your ability to successfully handle crisis together, a track record of honesty, and a willingness to compromise could be blatant clues of the potential with your significant other. To keep yourself afloat, choose someone you trust as your accountability partner. Make them aware of your expectations for your mate. And let them help you make wise decisions to protect your heart and future. Always keep in mind that your goal is to connect with someone who will help you create a lifetime of happiness.