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How being festive makes you more attractive

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If you're wondering why the winter holiday season would make a great time for dating, it's time to delve a little further into why celebrating life in the present is special and, most importantly, how it makes you more attractive.

I've come up with two date-magnet qualities that manifest when you are simply in the mood to be festive! If you need a great reason to go through all the hustle and turmoil of attending the festivities this year, here they are:

Everybody Reacts to Invitation

You can say what you want, but inviting people with you to a party or hosting a party yourself, will instantly make you more interesting. Sure, there's bound to be some people who are more excited than others by invitations, but, nonetheless, you have inspired a reaction. Wanting to be festive tells them you are asking for their personality to accompany yours. It's a compliment and way of asking for an experience with them. A good example is when somebody asks you to dance. Weather you instantly jump up to join them or get begged and dragged to the dance floor, your body physically reacts. Being festive and inviting others into your present happenings, is none other than exciting and provoking. Almost by definition, isn't "exciting" and "provoking" a form of being attractive? Of course it is! Be attractive and invite somebody with you somewhere this winter. Make that special person blush, get nervous, get excited, or play hard to get. Smile, be glad they came along, and I'm betting they'll come back for more.

Generosity is Intriguing

Who doesn't love Santa Clause? A guy who's kind to animals and gives presents to children all over the entire world. What's not to love? Gift giving is a staple of the winter season, but it really is generosity that steals hearts. When somebody gives without any expectation of a return, we know that it's nice, but we also know that it's noble. If you show that you are generous by creating a great holiday experience for somebody that you're interested in, it's hard for that person not to appreciate the gesture and become curious about you. Giving, with no strings attached, has a positive effect on people that makes people feel like they have a type of cheerleader in the room. I call it being Spirited. Being Spirited is definitely a big part of being festive, wouldn't you agree? Include some wholehearted generosity into your next date or party date, and you will have an engaged experience that makes your time and effort feel worthwhile.

All in all, "full engagement" into this holiday season can really make a difference in your love life this year. So don't wait, for the "right time" to be excited about dating. Make the seasonal festivities work for your personality. Inviting people around you and being generous will draw in smiles and affection, just like it works for Santa!



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