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Heat things up in the bedroom

It’s been a really long, cold winter in New Jersey this year.  It’s finally starting to warm up outside, but why not make things even hotter inside?  Here are a few easy ways to add some spark to your regular bedroom routine: 

  • Lingerie – Every girl needs some really sexy lingerie.  If you live in the northern Jersey area you’ve got to check out Fredericks of Hollywood in the Newport Centre in Jersey City.  If you want to look sexy but a little less exposed, they have some really cute babydolls and satin pj's.  If you're a little more adventurous and looking for something outrageously sexy, they have everything from corsets and garters to thongs and crotchless panties.  Whatever you choose, your guy will love it.  And you'll feel like a total hottie! 
  • Stilettos or thigh high boots – What guy wouldn’t be turned on if his girl came into the bedroom not only dressed in her sexiest lingerie, but also in a pair of stilettos or thigh high boots?  Keep them on to spice things up. 
  • Candles – Set the mood with candles.  Lots of them.  Something about the sweet smell and flickering light can add a little something to make the mood more romantic and sensual.  
  • Music – Make a special playlist of music just for the two of you….think soft, sensual, romantic…songs that will get you in the mood and keep you there. 
  • Massage oils – A long, seductive massage is a great way to start off a night of passion, so make sure to have massage oils on hand.  K-Y makes various massage oils that are available in many northern Jersey stores like Target, CVS, Walgreens, etc. 
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These are just a few ideas to add some heat to your regular bedroom routine.  There are so many other things you can do to really crank things up, so keep checking back for more ideas.  Plus you can email me at bruscher@hotmail.com with any questions or comments.

, Newark Sex & Relationships Examiner

Bobbi Ruscher is a busy mom, devoted wife, and a loyal friend to many. She has helped countless friends and family through their dating woes, relationship bumps, and marriage slumps. Plus she’s had her fair share of all of the above! She’s been there, done that…or at least done most of it. ...

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