He’s Just Not that Into You, a 2009 published best seller, co-authored by Greg Behrendt (and Liz Tuccillo), explains the tell tale signs of when a man is just not into a woman- bite down and know that you’re not the CHOSEN ONE.
According to the authors, one major sign (in this classic subliminal insinuation that women are too dumb to figure out things around them) that he’s just not that into you, is when he just doesn’t call. Oh dear, oh dear, it’s not as simple as he’s just not that into you just because he doesn’t show interest. For a confident woman - and any woman can become this – there is a whole other check list to be kept in the Michael Kors bag – not in the zipper pocket. Keep it in an easier to access place.
Because too often woman pursue the wrong man, one who does not deserve an outstanding woman; here is an experienced woman driven list, for every girl, with insight that will define what else can make a man blind to a good woman. Sister woman, let yourself off the hook because a distracted man might not have a thing to do with you. The list can be long, so roll it up before tucking. Here are the must right downs.
Let’s see…like he may not only be into women and shy away from committing to women because he’s not living truthfully; or maybe he’s one who desires EVERY woman- a heart crusher with no remorse (sociopath). Let’s not leave out men who were hurt by one woman, over a decade ago, and now he sees her in every woman – can’t grow or move forward. It could be insecurity – especially when in the presence of a woman who seems to be (seems to be because who are we fooling? Who the heck is really fully secure? Bull**** ). There are also serious medical issues that some men should attend to, such as erectile dysfunction and being the men they can be, it goes untreated and keeping women afar they sadly protect this secret.
And let’s not forget one of the biggest reasons a man may not be calling. He may not feel financially secured at this point in his life, which is cool but if he’s a looser or out of control and it shows up financially and his money situation is ALWAYS this way, he sure doesn’t want you in on that; and last but not least on the quick pull out list – he might be plain and simple f****** crazy and still bending, slow like molasses, to her knees is yet another woman begging to be THE ONE to a man who is doing 100 yard dashes between Mars and Jupiter.
To reiterate, men of character do want financial security before committing and losers either gravitate to women that will pick up the slack or they run from the ones that they don’t think will take the bait – either way it’s not always about the woman. Women, stop reacting to these behaviors as self reflective.
So this article was re-written from the original draft of a social commentary on women being socialized as the poor little victims in life and relationships, through a critique of the classic book He’s Just Not That Into You, to a comical voice when an act that seemed totally unrelated to this article, through a local Google search for next week’s Improv comedy club line up – no you will not believe who is performing- yes, Greg Behrendt, co-author of He’s Just Not That Into You – funniest line of the millennium.
He laughed all the way to the bank because women, Greg can't save you...only you can save you by beginning to change this socially ascribed relationship victim status to living life in full bloom and flourishing your authentic power through self determined choices.
Talk about the Universe lining things up. Take a look.