Men have always been a mystery to women. There hasn’t been a time when women haven’t puzzled over why men do the things they do. Why do men love certain women and only casually date others? Are men like women, can they know in an instant that they have found the one or is it more gradual—something that takes time? A lot of it is scientific, and yes looks do play a part, but only a part; It definitely isn’t the whole picture. Below are some essential things men need to fall in love:
1) The real you.
Like it or not, men already have a concept of what they like before they meet you. Some men prefer women who are skinny; some prefer a woman with some curves. There is nothing you can do to change these predetermined conceptions, and the best thing you can do is concentrate on being yourself. Men hate when women are self-conscious or self-loathing. They’ve obviously found something in you that they like, don’t make them have to keep reassuring you of your worth.
2) Sense of humor.
A woman who can make a man laugh is keeper. A woman who will laugh at a man’s corny jokes will hold his heart. Having a healthy sense of humor can go a long way in a man’s eyes.
3) Finding interest in things he loves.
It’s the little things that count. When a woman takes the time to play his favorite video game with him, or help him wrench on a car, or even watch a five-hour Star Wars marathon it hardly ever goes unnoticed.
4) Maintaining Independence.
Ask any man; the quickest way to lose him is to take away his independence. You were two separate people before you met, and it is essential for that same thing to happen after you enter into a relationship. Even though you’re a couple, a man needs his space and privacy and in return will give you yours.
5) Men need to be needed.
With men, there is such a thing as too much independence. If a woman has everything she needs, and the man feels like he isn’t needed, then he will not feel appreciated or valued. Let him know how much you need him.
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