Women fall into the trap every time. What trap is that? The one that has them chasing a man trying to get his attention when they should be smart enough to realize when the guy in question is not interested. Women make themselves miserable. They end up feeling like fools and every woman has done it at least once. So here is a little guide to determining whether or not the one they’re interested in returns the sentiment. .jpg)
1. While it’s true that most guys love it when the girl makes the first move, it should follow that the guy, if interested, will make the next move. If he does not, he’s not interested!
2. If a woman calls a guy and he doesn’t call back within 24 hours, he’s not interested! This statement is true even if a woman has had a previous inclination that the gentleman might be interested because he used to call, but if he stops making and returning those calls, just stop pushing it. He’s bowing out silently and can’t just come out and say “Hey, I’m no longer into you”. When a guy decides he isn’t into a woman, he is unable to tell her face to face for fear of confrontation. Guys hate nagging women and women that cry so they avoid these scenes. Ladies, gracefully walk away, and don’t keep banging your heads against a brick wall trying to get some kind of answer that might make sense. There will not be an answer that will satisfy or appease your feelings.
3. Rules one and two apply even to online relationships for those of you who use Match.com, MySpace, etc. If a guy let’s one week go by without checking in (after previously showing interest), then give him one more week to respond (but don’t keep sending him messages). He knows where to find you and will do so if he wants to. If two weeks go by, and no obituary appears saying he died, then he’s not interested in continuing the relationship.
4. If a guy is talking to/dating other women besides yourself, he’s not into you! He’s just playing the numbers game so he’ll always have a date! This is a guy who doesn’t care who you are, only if you’re there at his convenience. Stop being convenient and respect yourselves more!
5. If a guy treats a girl like a booty call, and only shows up at night, unannounced and drunk, or calls at 2:00 a.m. and wants to come over…..guess what chicas? He’s not interested in you! In this case, there is only one thing he is interested in. Don’t sell yourselves cheap, sisters.
If women want more out of a relationship than to be convenient, they have to start recognizing when someone is treating them with less care, consideration, and respect than they deserve. State expectations from the beginning, and if the guy in question can’t live up to that, then find another who can and will. Don’t make yourselves miserably unhappy by trying to figure out why some guy doesn’t find you enthralling enough to spend all his time with you. Believe in your own value. Trust that you have done nothing wrong and you do not fall short of some imaginary mark. That guy just isn’t the one for you, and you shouldn’t waste time chasing Mr. Wrong when you could be out there meeting Mr. Right!
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Michele
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