Recently, I made a toast at an old friend's 60th birthday dinner: "Growing old is non-negotiable. Growing up is a choice." He loved it.
It's similar to a quote from success coach Tony Robbins: "Change is inevitable. Progress is optional."
Amen to that.
No effort at all is required to get old. Our bodies do that quite naturally.
On the other hand, great effort, attention, and intention is required if we want to make progress. Or grow up.
How many times have you heard (or said) the old joke "What I will be when I grow up?" When someone in their fifties makes that joke, it is quite funny. And maybe a bit alarming.
The reason is, Growing Up is up to you.
What then is Growing Up? For job hunters, it means knowing enough about yourself that you know what you are good at. You know what problems you like to solve. You know what projects bring you the most joy. You know what your signature strengths are. You may even know what you are called to do in this life.
Have you started to grow up yet? It's no joke. Your success depends on it.
Recommended Tool: A useful tool used by coaches globally is called GROW. Originally developed by several coaches in the UK including Tim Gallwey (who wrote about it in The Inner Game of Tennis), the four elements in the model provide a practical roadmap toward your future: http://learningvoyager.blogspot.com/2009/10/journey-coaching.html
Posted on Terrence Seamon on Tuesday February 4, 2014
Terrence H. Seamon is a consultant who provides leadership and team development services to organizations. His book Lead the Way explores the challenges of leadership. Additionally, Terry is a job search and career coach whose book To Your Success provides a motivational guide for anyone in transition. His third book, Change for the Better, provides leaders with a guide to initiating, and navigating through, organizational change. Terry co-founded and co-moderates the St. Matthias Employment Ministry in Somerset, NJ. His free whitepaper on job search and transition, called "Galvanize Into Action," is available by sending him an email request. He can be reached at firstname.lastname@example.org and via his website: http://about.me/terrenceseamon