Breaking up with someone you love is never an easy thing to do. The pain and agony that follows is nearly unbearable as you do the best you can to get through your days. You spend your every waking moment replaying that last argument you had as well as thinking about all of the good times you shared with your ex. All the while you are emotionally numb and feel too paralyzed to do much else than sit and sulk. I have been through a few bad breakups in the past and know all too well what you must be feeling right now. That is why I am going to help you get your ex back by teaching you a few things I have learned along the way.
The “No Contact” Method
This is one method that people are always a little bit skeptical about when I first tell them about it. They think, “Well, how am I supposed to get my ex back if I can’t contact him/her?” Trust me. There is a method to my madness here that is going to help you tremendously. There are three reasons that the “no contact” method works very effectively to help you get your ex back.
Absence Makes The Heart Grow Fonder
Did you know that the lack of something increases the desire for it? That is one reason the “no contact” method works so well. When you are not surrounded by memories, flooded by emotions, and constantly in communication with someone, it can be easier to see past all of the negatives about that person. Eventually your heart will start to miss that person and will only see the positives and good memories that are there. This is not only true for you but it is true for your ex as well. Being absent from that person will make them miss you way more than if you were constantly trying to throw yourself at them.
Time Heals Old Wounds
There is something therapeutic about time that gives it the power to heal old wounds. The more time that passes the easier it is for a person to forgive another person for the things they have done. Of course, you should expect that the bigger the “thing” was that you said or did, the longer it will take before the person is actually ready to forgive you for it.
Your Ex Can’t See What Was Lost Until It’s Gone
The only way your ex is going to start realizing what he/she has lost is if it is truly gone. If you are constantly calling, professing your love, and everything else, then your ex is getting all of this without having to return it to you and that is simply not fair to you. The best thing to do is avoid your ex for a while and let him/her find out what life is like without you in it.
Magic of Making Up
There is a program called The Magic of Making Up that I highly recommend you take a look at. It has helped over 100,000 people in 77 different countries get back with their ex boyfriends and girlfriends, husbands and wives. This is a very powerful course that was put together by relationship expert T.W. Jackson to help guide you through the process of getting your ex back. You can take a look at the course by visiting The Magic of Making Up Website.
Another program that is effective for helping you get your ex back is called Romance Rewind. It was put together by relationship expert Lori Pinkerton and is based on 3 simple concepts: Re-Building, Re-Attracting, and Re-Uniting. You can learn more about the program by visiting the Relationship Rewind Website.
Text Your Ex Back
One final recommendation is the Text Your Ex Back course that relationship expert Michael Fiore created. This program will teach you how to send powerful little text messages that will work on your ex boyfriend or girlfriend’s psyche to make them beg to take you back. In fact, when you are finished with the course and have used what you will learn, they will think it was their idea for the two of you to get back together! You can take a look at the course by visiting the Text Your Ex Back Website.
Hopefully, you can see the power of the “no contact” method and will start using it immediately to start getting your ex to want to take you back. Just remember, by not having any type of contact with your ex, you will be making his/her heart fonder, will be giving him/her time to heal their wounds, and will be making him/her find out what they are really losing. You need all of this to happen in order to put your relationship back together and make it stronger than ever before.