There's a saying, "You can't turn a hoe into a housewife". Well maybe you can't, but she can definitely make a complete turn around on her own. Some people choose a certain lifestyle while others, because of unfortunate circumstances are thrusted into it. Someone who has been the victim of a sexual crime may take on promiscuous behaviors.
Promiscuity is defined according to the Webster as including not only frequent but indiscriminate sexual behavior which is better known as nymphomania. It's fine for men to be sexually promiscuous, in fact, their buddies cheer them on. But when a woman openly expresses their sexuality, their viewed as hoes.
Well ladies, this type of behavior unless it is associated with a mental disorder can be changed. Most women call it a spiritual awakening. They turn their lives over to a higher power while others discover their worth. Not every woman chooses whoring as an occupation, it was merely a past time. You know the saying, "When I was a child........., well, it comes a time when you want to put the past behind; clean out your closet and start over with a new wardrobe.
Most women, from a young age dream of the day they will get married. So for the ones who are really serious about leaving their promiscuous lifestyle behind..... in other words, you have found someone that makes you want to turn in your hoe card; know that it will never work, if you have ever smashed his homey.
Another good idea would be to have you and your partner checked for STD's and HIV. It's good if you can start your relationship with a clean slate. Professional or Religious counseling, which ever you prefer would be a wonderful way to keep the communication lines open.
Whatever path you decide to take, you can accomplish being a loving and faithful housewife. Look at it like this, if all else fails; that experience you learned on the other side may come in handy, because to have a successful marriage requires one way or another, that you will be on your knees.
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