Dakin, 37 said, “If your man is not asking you for sex anymore, it means he’s seeking it elsewhere. He’s not going to accept being in a marriage without sex. I’m sure there women who know that their man has been cheating but are happy because they don’t want to have sex with him anymore.”
“They are probably relieved that he’s not hassling them and just decide to turn a blind eye. Everyone always hates the escorts but you have to remember there are woman who are probably quite thankful that they’re around.”
“About 60 percent of the men I saw while I was escorting were married or had girlfriends. Men cheat for different reasons.”
“Some may be genuinely lacking intimacy at home but others just get off on the danger element of wondering whether they’ll get caught.”
Rebecca Dakin went on to state that Valentine’s Day is a busy day for escorts. She described one Valentine’s Day where she spent the afternoon in a hotel with a client.
Once they were done having sex, Dakin said the man made a phone call to the reception desk requesting they send up champagne and clean sheets. He did it because his wife was going to be joining him at the hotel to celebrate Valentine’s Day about thirty minutes after Dakin left.
Rebecca Dakin said that night made her mad. “I was so angry. I think clients sometimes forgot that my loyalties lie with women.”
“I don’t know why we always get the blame in these situations. It’s the responsibility of the person in the relationship to be faithful. Even if the hottest woman in the world comes on to your boyfriend, he should be strong enough to withstand it and, if he’s not, she’s don you a favor.”
Rebecca Dakin began working as an escort at the age of 25. She says she failed at college, struggled through dead end jobs and decided being a prostitute was the only way she was ever going to make good money.
When Dakin made the decision to become an escort, she was living with her parents. She was upfront with them and told them exactly what career path she had chosen. “My parents had despaired of me.”
“I’d always been a rebellious child and at this point they just didn’t know what to do with me. It would have been different if I was 18, but because I was 25 I think they realized I was an adult and they just wanted to let me make my own mistakes.”
“It was not the job my mum would have chosen for me but once she saw I was going to really nice restaurants and hotels and meeting people like bankers and solicitors, I think she became marginally more comfortable with it.”
Dakin says she was able to get a mortgage on a new flat within three months of being a prostitute. When she applied for the mortgage, Rebecca said they gave it to her right away.
“The guy in the bank gave me a mortgage straight away when he heard I was an escort. He told me they never had any problem with girls in my profession.”
Rebecca Dakin said that she specialized in overnight stays. She described being able to travel to places like Hong Kong, Dubai, Italy, Paris and Switzerland.
Dakin said that she gave up the prostitution because she wanted to settle down. “I want to have kids and settle down and I didn’t want to be working as an escort while I did that.”
“I wanted to prove to myself that I could do something else and was capable of earning money in another way.”
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