What if you could transform your love life, what if you could change everything? All it takes is the right words and body language to connect to his/her heart. Inspiring a person to fall in love with you is about you being able to receive love. Do you suffer from feelings of inadequacy, fear and jealousy in your relationship and it’s making your partner withdraw? What if you could be so relaxed in your relationship/marriage that you never again had to worry about saying or doing the wrong thing to push your partner away?
I’ve learned to never give your partner the feeling that you’re making him/her more important than you. I know that this may go against everything we women have been taught about relationships. Men don’t fall in love with us because of how much we can do for them. They fall in love because of how they feel when we allow them to be useful to us and how much we show appreciation to them for what they do.
Nobody likes a drama queen. Drama is what you do when you’re afraid of your true emotions. Drama is what you do when you’re afraid of your rage and pain so you work overtime to shut down your emotions and bury them. Keeping your emotions at bay for fear of losing your partner causes you to become angry when deep down you’re really angry at yourself because of ignoring the truth. Practice getting comfortable with your feelings. This means getting in touch with your feelings, wherever you are, whatever comes up, stop what you’re doing and take a second to acknowledge the feeling.
Practice feeling compassion for yourself and what you’re experiencing inside. At first this may not come naturally to you especially when you’re so use to hiding what you’re feeling. If you’re like me, thoughts come across your mind constantly. When you can deal with the thoughts and the voice in your head, you’ll gain more confidence and feel more relaxed with yourself and therefore be more magnetic in your relationship.
You deserve the connected, committed relationship you’ve always wanted. Sometimes we attach ourselves to our partner and invest our time and heart in it, making our partner feel slightly out of reach. And because we are so attached, we start making excuses for when we’re not being showered with the attention we crave.
A man falls in love with a woman not because of how you look or your achievements, it’s because he knows he can be himself around you. He feels this way because he senses your confidence, how you can handle your feelings. He senses that at the most unconscious level, he starts to long for your company, for your touch, for your affection without knowing why he feels this way. Women can light candles, wear the cutest clothes or cook him dinner and still a man may not want to see you the next day. This happens because you did not trigger love in his heart or connect with him on his deepest most intimate level…his feelings. Getting in touch with your own emotions and self-confidence will help you to connect to another person’s feelings and capture their heart.
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