Parents want to make holidays special for kids, but according to author John Payne, less is often more. In trying to create a memorable Halloween for kids, parents may make the mistake of planning too much for kids to do. Is it really going to be enjoyable for a family to rush out the door to a Halloween party, followed by a quick visit a haunted house or corn maze plus neighborhood trick or treating for 45 minutes after arriving back home? Sounds fun at first, but often a packed schedule results in stimulation overload, anxious children and stressed-out parents.
Simplicity Parenting: Back to basics
The Simplicity Parenting movement is looking more and more attractive to parents. John Payne and Lisa Ross wrote a 256 page book, Simplicity Parenting: Using the Extraordinary Power of Less to Raise Calmer, Happier and More Secure Kids which was published in 2010 by Ballentine Books. Now Simplicity Parenting also offers parent trainings and audio courses for download. Parents can watch the short video interview with John Payne at the left on Channel 5 News in Atlanta, GA. Payne explains the impact of sensory overload, overscheduled kids and stressed out competitive parents.
Downscaling Halloween: Ideas for parents
What lasting memories do you want your kids to remember surrounding the celebration of Halloween? Is it dressing in a costume and trick or treating to a few neighbors' houses? Is it a small Halloween party with two other families - a get together where you play family friendly games? Is it a healthy supper and carnival at your house of worship? Is it hosting a party for kids at a homeless shelter or children's home? If you'd like to try out the Simplicity Parenting style, decide on one truly meaningful activity and take the time to enjoy it spending time with your kids.
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