While eavesdropping on a conversation of two 20-something girls, a person can hear a lot of startling things. This conversation in particular focused on their boyfriends and relationship problems.
One girl said to the other, “My boyfriend texts me constantly. Like all the time. The other night, for example, I went to a concert with my friends and I told him I was busy and couldn’t talk. Then, he proceeded to text me, drilling me about who I was with and what was going on the entire time. He ruined my night.”
The other one went on to talk about her boyfriend behaving in a similar way. She then brought up how her boyfriend frequently talks about marriage and moving in with each other, to which she followed up with a shudder and look of disgust.
This raises the question, why are so many girls with guys that they can’t stand? And how do you know when to call it quits?
A lot of girls seem to rationalize to themselves that problems in a relationship will get better. Unfortunately, this is rarely the case. Often times, people will actually get worse over time.
Girls in an unhealthy relationship need to leave as soon as the guy shows warning signs. Anyone who is overly clingy and obsessive is not someone you need to be with. The longer a girl in this situation waits to end things, the harder and more dangerous it will be.
The moral of the story is this; no one deserves to be in a miserable relationship. If you are not enjoying your significant other then it is time to move on to someone else. End things as quickly and painlessly as possible so both of you can get on with your lives.