In society, most of us would rather become leaders then followers because there are so many benefits that come with it. For example, in the work environment, the top leaders make the most money because they make the major decisions that will have a big impact on the company. And then in life, the people who have the most influences in society are the top leaders who are powerful who have a lot of authority and great ideas. Basically, leaders are just people who know what they want or need and then take actions for them to get things done.
In this case, we can all become leaders. We just need to know what we want out of life, take actions and be in control of them. When you are taking actions and live according to your own lifestyle, you are definitely a leader because you are not following anyone. In addition, when you are living the life you create for yourself, you will soon have followers without you realizing it. Others will see how great and powerful you are when you are creating and living the lifestyle according to your standard, and then others will also want to do the same thing as you. Even though others are not living the same lifestyle as you, they are following the same method as you. When that happens, you become an even more powerful leader because you are influencing others to do what you are doing, but also give them the abilities and believe that they can all become great leaders through their own lifestyle.
So why is it so difficult for others to become leaders in their own lives? The reason is because many people believe that in order to become a leader, they must have followers. And in order to have followers, people believe that they need to have great ideas for others to follow.
However, we do not need to have followers to become leaders. And all of your ideas are great when it is your lifestyle.
If you are having a hard time becoming your own leader, then you want to take out a piece of paper and write down everything that you want to accomplish in your life. What do you want to have? What kind of friends do you want to be surrounded with? What kind of person do you want to become? You want to write down the lifestyle that you want from every aspect of your life (personal, private, social, etc.). And then you want to pick one at a time and make action steps to fulfill it. When you are taking actions to fulfill the lifestyle that you want, then you are truly a leader.