Ever find yourself uncomfortably stuck in the energy of envy? Maybe you have a good friend who seems to have the perfect life or maybe there is a co-worker who closes every deal effortlessly, while you are toiling away trying to close just one. Or maybe you have a beautiful sibling whose success seems to follow them like a love-sick puppy while you struggle just to make ends meet. Whatever form envy or jealousy may be creeping into your life, it feels terrible! But we are human, and these are normal human emotions. No need to feel bad about it and beat yourself up! Remember, everything starts with self-love. We need to learn the tools to transform these emotions because they are slowing down the good coming your way! Can’t be having that! Not when your intention is to bring more beauty, love, health and abundance into your life.
Lets be real. Growth can be challenging at times. It is uncomfortable to move outside of our cozy, comfort zones and venture out into the scary unknown. It can make you feel vulnerable, raw, and yet it is a beautifully honest part of the process. Rev. Michael Beckwith says, “Agitation is part of the cycle. What you consider your worst day is your best day spiritually.” Now, that sure does transform your perception of bad day into an empowering one, doesn’t it?!
In moments like these we have to remember that all of us have distinct, unique paths. Look at how far you’ve already come! No one has gone through exactly what you have gone through. There is simply no comparison. This is something very powerful to think about- Just because there may seem to be a delay in our good, it certainly doesn’t mean we are being denied.
Our gifts in life often come in surprising and unexpected ways, as I am sure you already have first hand experience! When envy or jealously stealthily creep in, we’ve got to clear our minds and do our best to feel joyful for others’ successes. I know this can be incredibly hard to do when in the thick of these emotions. Yet when we do this, it makes room in our lives for more of the good stuff that is ours by Divine right! In sending out positive vibes to others and their abundance we are also saying “YES” to what we want and that’s when the Universe will respond in kind. I won’t sugar coat it, it can be down right hard when we are feeling lack and watching others thrive. But, with dedication and a sprinkle of faith, you can overcome counterproductive feelings. And, by loving others and celebrating their joys in life you are contributing to raising the vibration of the planet and everyone around you. Makes sense, since we are all interconnected right? Deepak Chopra couldn’t be more right when he said, “We are all the same being under different disguises.”
Another piece of the puzzle is gratitude. If you just cannot get to feeling joy for that other person or situation, its ok. That is normal; we’ve all been through it one way or another. What you can do to transmute these negative energies is harness good ole gratitude! Gratitude will immediately transform your feelings and get you back on the Love train! Which in turn will serve as a magnificent magnet, attracting all that you lovingly desire. Say thank you if you get what you want AND when you don’t! This is a message to the Universe that you have deep abiding faith and you trust that you will receive your good in even greater ways. Plus, it just feels great! Give it a try, you’ll see!
Be kind to yourself. Love your own path and the unique twists and turns it takes. Let go of comparing yourself to others, no ones journey is the same. Your Soul is expressing itself authentically. Honor that. When you do, new doors will open, opportunities will arise and you will find yourself at the right place at the right time. Its called being in the flow!
I leave you with a few quotes that get me back on the right path with pep in my step and a gleam in my eyes!
Our vision will become clear only when you look into your heart. Who looks outside, dreams. Who looks inside, awakens. Carl Jung
Find out who you are and do it on purpose. Dolly Parton
Your time is limited; so don't waste it living someone else's life. Have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. Steve Jobs
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