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Defending Manny and the meaning of loyalty

 

"The National Fist" Manny Pacquiao

And so all observers have reached an eventuality where there were able to witness a business mistake being made.  It was inevitable.  A few were made in the past.  More are coming.

Intentional or not - redundantly stating in order to drive the fact (not an opinion) - that more mistakes are coming.  In case you are asking why that to be the case . . .

. . . because Emmanuel Dapidran Pacquiao is a human being.

Given that irrevocable link that each of us share, due to our common humanity, as Manny makes mistakes, so do the legions of readers, followers, and observers each and individually make their own.  So does he who currently patters on the keyboard to grace his words on the computer screen.

The cynical, the optimist.  Men, women,  Rich and poor alike.  Sporadic comments seem to suggest that the error recently made is somehow that un-gentlemanly curse that is materially diminishing the luster of the National Fist.  He is a celebrity.   And to the voices of some, "how stupid, selfish, or foolish."

Celebrity, in our contemporary setting, is synonymous with sensationalist errors.

Alex Rodriguez with steroids and prostitutes.  Barry Bonds and steroids.  Mike Tyson and rape.  Lindsay Lohan with drugs, alcohol, and car crashes.  Thousands of examples litter our scrolls.  Celebrities reflect society, and "normal" individuals have their share of the problems referenced above - if not more. 

Manny Pacquiao is a Celebrity.  He is also a Hero.  Celebrity is different from Hero.

People who do not make (public) mistakes have a combination of the following traits:

  1. The Courtesan.  They have become adept at hiding mistakes and in managing surface appearances - what you may consider "spin".  To be sure, intricacies in methods are involved in order to portray an exacting image - a fantasy.  While, most reasonable people typically provides a viewpoint favorable to their individual cause, those that excel at appearances and providing spin, are the inauthentic breed.  You will find plenty of the scheming courtesans at your medieval royal courts.  And downtown parties at clubs and bars.
  2. The Inconsequential.  They have not placed themselves on the line, and thus have nothing at stake.  The perennial observer who risks nothing, and opines on everything, including casually opining on those that have risked everything.  They predictably whither like the unwatered plant.  Why?  Because their views mean nothing, even to their own circle.  Our actions are an imprint on eternity.  Their lack of, truly applies the label.
  3. The Unsympathetic.  Those that cannot empathize with another human being, but rather forms a harsh and brutish judgment on the perceived foibles and shortcomings of others.  They view themselves as above the mistake-laden mortal.  To be sure, they do not judge themselves harshly.  Applying the same rules to assess their own individual circumstances can find, or reveal, the lack of justification for wearing the unsympathetic hat.  Most simply do not care, and are apt to spew words they are not aware are detrimental to their societal tribe [in this case, the Philippines] or are hurtful.

As Manny serves as Celebrity to most Western observers, in these eyes a mistake on a legally binding and enforced business contract is standard.  It happens to the vast majority of accounting, finance, and medical professionals.  Misunderstandings are an occurrence in each and every business enterprise. 

As Manny serves as Hero to his countrymen, his services to his fellows are undisputed and gargantuan in proportion to the charitable contributions of Average Joe.  Average Joe, we can reasonably attribute less than a hundred dollars, perhaps a few hundred if he is exceedingly generous, per year . . . to such causes as school functions, church, and the local non-profit drive. 

We submit some questions.

Manny's millions of dollars - literally - in food, cash, and health services contributions, are they outweighed by a singular business error?

Manny's intention of helping his Society post boxing, is that now diminished from a contracts dispute?


Ricky "Hitman" Hatton (L), Pacquiao (R)

The answers lie within the onlooker - how he judges the world - what lies within his heart.  Albert Einstein once said that the most important decision a man has to make in his life is whether he chooses to view the world (and the universe) as a harsh environment or a friendly environment.  In my view, hurtful statements hurled at an honorable and decent man, who has given his all for others, has a disposition of character that is not on the same level as Manny - to put it politely.

And when we state that Manny is giving everything he's got on behalf of his people and for all who enjoy boxing, let us conveniently stumble upon a link to a boxer who dies from brain injury due to blows delivered in the ring.

I must confess that it is my suspicion that most with criticisms can not begin to know what such level of contribution and sacrifice is like.

Houston-based Pastor Joel Osteen most simply and decisively describes what it means to be a loyal person.  For those who recall those days where virtues such as Loyalty, Decency, and Understanding still matter, it is not so much that these virtues are correct because they yield something.  The virtues are a blessing in and of themselves.

Houston-based Pastor Joel Osteen on the definition of loyalty

It has been said that fame without accomplishment is a misery.  But that accomplishment without fame is a good life.  Manny has accomplished beyond most Filipinos' previous grasp of sports imagination . . . that his towering achievements must necessarily effect universal fame.  That fame need not be accompanied by misery inflicted by his own fellow. 

More boxing articles:  Michael Marley, New York Boxing Examiner

Defending Manny, and the meaning of loyalty

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Comments

  • rao007 3 years ago

    I've said this before and I'll say it again. You're not a fan if you're not willing to stick by your fighter when the chips or down, whether that's in the ring or not.

  • rao007 3 years ago

    chips are down*

  • startXI 3 years ago

    Those who criticizes others are hypocrits since they are blinded by their arrogance and cannot see their own mistakes... A true friend and fan gives an advice to make others better not to condemn and curse to downgrade a person...

    Thumbs up to this article...

  • caloyjuetengalain 3 years ago

    it's not my idol mistake!!! it's the wrong doing of the greedy-greedy t.v. network initiated by dirty DDDIIIAAANNNAAA CASTEHILO.let's boycott this t.v. network i'm calling all the filipinos all over the world.they are correct D.C. is abusing MANNY'S GOODNESS AND GENTLENESS...let's support MANNY and his boycott from the greedy network!!!!!

  • tolits012003 3 years ago

    Well said article. No matter what the situation is, a loyal fan always sticks to his idol through thick and thin. It's so unfortunate that this thing has to happen and other people just condemn the deed without weighing the good things a person had done in the past. To all those so called "fans of Manny" who judged him negatively through this misdeed, you should consider the fact that before there was a Manny Pacquiao in the top boxing world, people look upon us as third rate race in the world. But Pacman brought us to unprecedented heights where even the best and the brilliant of our race had not taken us to. Just for this one single deed alone should merit consideration for whatever fault he had today. He is an inspiration to us by doing what is undeniably impossible to do, he maybe controversial sometimes but his attitudes and demeanor as a celebrity is exemplary (I wonder what notoriety other filipinos of his stature could have done!); the fact that he changed little with the soaring of his celebrity status is amazing!, he is still kind and caring to simple people in the community and my only regrets is that he maybe infuenced a bit by the people surrounding him now like a courdon sanitaire. For all his faults, I would still admire him and love him being a filipino and his loyal fan. Just one side comment though, why does solar refuses to air his fights on ppv in the dream sattelite cable provider in RP? I refuse to go to the theatre because it's nice to watch it with friends and familt at home and enjoy the fight. I hope they do it htis time.

  • jiffyj 3 years ago

    It's so sad that most of the harshest criticisms have come from Manny's countrymen. Let's not forget that every judgment we make about others tells more about ourselves than about them. And one of the biggest mistakes we can make is to confuse behavior with the person. Amen.

  • Jericho Yan 3 years ago

    I now realized that "Manny being my idol" is totally different from "me being Manny's fan". I admit, I previously idolized the Pacman as him and its fine with me being a pacnut or a pachugger but due to his recent ventures ridiculously happened (not once but more than twice) out of the ring. It made me decide that I should just be "a fan" and not "him as my idol".

  • rao007 3 years ago

    el critico, yet nothing in the letter of intent which Manny signed had anything to do with money. Hmmmm.....

  • bokz 3 years ago

    yeah yeah right!
    I am Manny Pacquiao,s fan. I will support him win or lose just and only just in boxing as in inside the ring.
    I know hes just a human who made a mistakes and not perfect but what he have done again is a plain stupidity, as a filipino citizen he dont have a right to be honor because Manny doesnt have a word of honor. PEACE!

  • juanitozespanol 3 years ago

    Manny was duped by D.C and this giant network ABS-CBN no doubt period. For those people who are saying that Manny is greedy are just plain stupid. Yes he wants to make money more money but totally not for himself. Manny has a big generous heart. As what Freddie has said "I'm afraid Manny ends up broke giving money to the poor". Yes, thats a fact. Mayweather throwing 30K dollars is nothing compared to Manny's giving away millions just to make people happy. So who's greedy.

  • Dark Invader 3 years ago

    well we all have our convictions, damage has been done,but let us not forget all that MP has contributed to the rising of the sports we love (boxing of course)and putting The Philippines atop of the world.

  • harbox 3 years ago

    good article...

  • caloyjuetengalain 3 years ago

    mistake by MANNY..fault by MANNY..it's easy for a few dumb channel zero-two anomally fanatic people to accused...why don't they know who is behind these messes????to tell YOU a million times the author of this controversy is no other than DDDDIANNNNN CASTEHILONGHILO directed by her pirate channel the most greedy network i ever know together with her sister company the highest power rating collector that suck the blood of poor filipinos... i'm calling you once again to boycott this greedy greedy greedy network!!!!!!!

  • gflo 3 years ago

    I understand that it was a business mistake and just a human error. I also think that everyone shouldnt give much fuzz about it since what we support is Manny as the boxer and not the businessman wherein its all personal to him and should not affect us fans. These mistakes happen and and so what? he has not failed any of us. And if he fails in any match he still does not fail the nation and his fans. Let those 3 networks who are fight over Manny, it does not matter coz Manny will still box. Eventually this issue should die down but the more writers write about it the more people will be aware and try to criticize which wont be healthy for every fan. End this issue and lets support the fighter we have loved because of what he does best.

  • FlurryShuffle 3 years ago

    el critico says: bottom line - manny's greed is getting the better of him. his love of country blah blah were all fakes. in truth, he's greedy.

    i doubt that manny's political ambition is driven by greed. if anything, it's addiction to fame. oh, maybe you're right after all -- it is greed for the limelight. :-) he seems to have a genuine concern for the poor though.

  • pOnga 3 years ago

    Thank's for the article! Sometimes we committed mistakes not one's nor twice but from those mistakes we can learn so many things. I hope Manny Pacquiao will realize this also. This kind of incidents happened already twice. I'm still ur fan inside the ring but outside... NO!

  • gin 3 years ago

    Hi folks even thou manny make a mistake he is till our hero, He sacrifice himself just for the sake of his family and our country so to the people who are filipino and don't appreciate what he is accomplished don't get jealous just mind your business and shut up.

  • indiopinoy 3 years ago

    very good article, its just sad to know their are
    many filipinos who have a crab mentality....they are waiting for him to make mistakes its as if his not human...its as if they too could not make mistakes. the best way for us to do is to understand him because his new with this kind of business. Manny is an honorable man he just needs to be guided in tackling this contracts. because of his goodnes and big heart he wants to please everybody. and to those who give nasty comments, its not your face and body who will be busted inside the ring, it's manny's....so please shut up...translated in visayan dialect "PAGHILUM"

  • indiopinoy 3 years ago

    AND BY THE WAY" HONORED OR UNHONORED CONTRACTS"

    MANNY YOU ARE STILL MY IDOL

    WIN OR LOSE HERE IN MINDANAO YOU ARE OUR IDOL

  • al999 3 years ago

    I've said this before and i will say it again.i'm hard fun of MP.i will stick to my idol.this the tresure in the philppine.i know that same people wan't to MP down...and i want to continue to pray to MP.

  • ronald 3 years ago

    I now realized that "Manny being my idol" is totally different from "me being Manny's fan". I admit, I previously idolized the Pacman as him and its fine with me being a pacnut or a pachugger but due to his recent ventures ridiculously happened (not once but more than twice) out of the ring. It made me decide that I should just be "a fan" and not "him as my idol". i do like manny pacman fighting style in the ring but being a human,its a big ? mark,,,we dont have the right to judge people but we have the right to choose whats is right and wrong,,,,

  • gutsydude 3 years ago

    A mistake is a mistake. lets all agree on that. And a mistake should never be justified in any way.
    Manny made a mistake not only through his act but that act was caused by a character flaw which is greed. Now that is the bottom line.
    We may stand for Manny and defend him all we want but the question is "does he care at all?" Is he even sorry for his mistake and realized its implication? or its by virtue of an existing contact that his motive was not pushed. Given the same scenario in the future... will he still do the same thing? Remember Manny transfered to GMA because they payed him more....

    Skills will bring people to the top...but its their character that will let them stay there for a season.

  • caloyjuetengalain 3 years ago

    MANNY PAQUIAO-CHARICE PEMPENGCO AND ARNEL PINEDA these are the superstar that were nobody before...but now here they are......world wide famous all over....and the beneficiary is ....the greediest channel of them all- the 0-2 anomally holder ...poor filipinos only becoming a prey victim to a hungry predator the greedy-greedy network.. MANNY PAQUIAO you must avoid DIANNNN CASTEHILONG HILO she is the BAIT of this monster network !!!!!!

  • 143 3 years ago

    its not MP mistake....abscbn network doing dirty tactic.its a wrong doing of the greedy greedy,in the middle of preparation of MP...abscbn is not a good network...

  • yagbols 3 years ago

    i cant believe manny did it again(he did it to golden boy b4), it only shows what kind of person he is,. i only respect him as a boxer but as a businessman with that kind of attitude and ignorance... i think his IQ is below 50.
    i hope he keeps on winning because once his career goes down, i think all those politicians and fake friends of him, will start turning their back on him. he is a sick liar and an intergalactic dumb ass. im so upset

  • deeduns1925 3 years ago

    Why will he run for congressman when you know you have limited intellectual capacity.Pacman can help your poor countrymen the way he is used to. Greed is his motivation. He is also a puppet of the mother of all greedy GMA

  • isidro 3 years ago

    It is very understandable that a mistake deserve further scrutiny specially if the peron is a public figure no exception.However manny so busy in training ,he deserve a break out from this issue.This is true to all the filipinos who do love to see him win and once more brings pride to the nation.The boxing world at large doesn't symphatize with our internal squabbles ,but for Manny Pacuiao to fight one more time greatly and give them feelings of satisfaction and entertainment.
    If the current issue will affect the fight it will be MP as the only receiving end.We are use of seeing greatness turned sour in boxing for sure.We must show to the whole world that we are great people and deserve nothing less.

  • MMA Philippines 3 years ago

    Manny is still the best

    mmaphilippines.net

  • daniel 3 years ago

    Very well said and written."In my view, hurtful statements hurled at an honorable and decent man, who has given his all for others, has a disposition of character that is not on the same level as Manny - to put it politely."

    I just can't believe that after reading this article they still don't get it: people like deeduns1925 and yagbols also some so called sportswriters like recah t and tommy m. I believe they are not only on the same level with Manny in terms of character but in intelligence as well. WHY? They don't get it.

  • nicholsjet 3 years ago

    I'm still waiting for a brave writer who will write against abs-cbn and gabby lopez. How did he/lopez know that manny approached abs-cbn? I bet miss castillejo will not admit it. I'm still waiting for miss DC's statement. No!!!! abs-cbn has not said everything that is to be said about this fiasco. Far from it!!!!
    And to GMA 7, i'm not on your side either, you're still part of irresponsible broadcasting - the so called fourth estate of the oligarchic Philippine elites!!!

  • jomari 3 years ago

    I think manny is shy to say no if someone approached him regarding on media coverage...but this is all about how powerfull abs-cbn is..cause GMA and solar's has only had a limited covered with manny pacquiao fights..only abs-cbn has a wider coverage compared to GMA or solar's..abs-cbn has proven that is not all about for MANNY is all about how to reach people in a remote area or every where in the world.that is the reason why manny like to comeback to ABS-CBN beacuse he knowS how poor is media coverage(GMA/SOLAR'S) with him compared to ABS-CBN..if you get more wider coverage why not..goahead manny take abs-cbn..is the only channel you have help with the poor people..you get more money but you give back as well to the poor people..so which one you like GMA/SOLAR'S OR abs-cbn?up to you..but i suggest take the offered with abs-cbn..more media coverage and get more money..then shared with the poor people...not unlike with GMA/SOLAR'S you actually help them to make more money and the poor people will not get anything from them....thank you...

  • rego 3 years ago

    the writer and those who keep on calling MP hero are plain nuthuggers. simply put blind and dumb who can't see the difference between right or wrong. you're condoning the wrong deeds of pacquiao. you're spoiling him. and for that he gets greedier each time since he gets away easily with blatant mistakes. how can he commit those kind of mistakes concerning legal matters with his plethora of advisers sorounding him? that's plain garapalan. MP and whoever are his advisers must be thinking by now that they can get away with anything that they'll do with his blind followers always ready to forgive and defend him. that's simply nuthugging at its best.

  • shut up idiots 3 years ago

    Manny Pacquiao has done more for the Philippines, Filipinos, and Boxing than any boxer has or will for their country. Muhammad Ali is the only exception because he is world wide. So shut up with your stupid comments, HATERS!

  • jr 3 years ago

    mistake is mistake.. MP is human.nobody saying that your perfect.there some people or enemy waiting if manny make a mistake and making a big issue for all paclander fans,until now they convicted damage her reputation .all filipino people boxing fans are totaly divided...20% saying may be manny will down to canvas this coming fight w hitman ricky hatton,15% saying MP is not hero in the PHP. 15% saying MP is pupet trapo
    50%saying MP is the tresure in the php he is the idolized..my conclusion.. please unity our filipino nation.. damage has been done.finish..continue pray our national hero.let us not forget MP contributing in the high level in the boxing sports,and putting the php in the top of world.

  • genzki1 3 years ago

    THE PROBLEM HERE ARE STILL NOT MP ITS SO CLEAR THAT THE PEOPLE AROUND HIM LIKE CROCODILES ARE THE ONES WHO CREATED THESE MESS... LOOK AT THE PEOPLE OF ABS CBN ITS A SHAME FULL ACT IN THIER PART...... MAHIYA NAMAN KAYONG MGA MAHILIG MANULSOL KAY MANNY AT IKAW NAMAN MANNY ALISIN MO MUNA KASI ANG PULITIKA SA ISIP SA KASALUKUYAN... THIS IS UNSOLICITED ADVICE FROM ME T.Y.

  • jr 3 years ago

    you know pare i thick your not pinoy.we are in the sport this is not a politics.you put a side you politics comment,, if you heared all network in the php saying we are all pilipino forget wat it happen.we need to support MP.

  • lou 3 years ago

    well done marv,you're one of rare breed writers that we need right now,indirect-envy on MP"s wealth led them to cast their stone on the man that uplift us Pinoys,both local & abroad.the same crab mentality that continue to haunt us since time immemorial.

  • Aries 3 years ago

    kung ako kay Manny di ko muna papasukin ang pulitika! kase ang pulitika nanjan lang palagi yan e! di naman umaalis yan. pero ang pag sikat at kumuha muna ng bundok bundok na pera sa US e once in a lifetime lang yan. ngayun kung medyo laos na siya at tumanda na dun siya pumasok sa pulitika. Remember money is power! nasa kasikatan pa siya at bata pa siya pulitika agad ang iniisip! e 30 pa lang naman siya. 4 yrs from now e election na naman at 34 lang siya at dun siya pumasok sa pulitika. Tama ba ko?

  • buteteng laot 3 years ago

    para kay aries , mali ka kung gustong pumasok sa pulitika ni manny tama lang , dahil panahon na , di na kaylangan hintayin pa nya ang edad 34 . akala mo ba di napapagod si manny , kung magpapatuloy sya hangang 34 baka baldado na sya , paano pa makpagsisilbi c manny sa kababayan nya , di mo alam ang sinasabi mo gao , ang alam mo lang nasisiyahan ka kapag lumalaban si manny ,at nanalo . kaya gusto mo pa syang magtagal sa boxing .nakapagod din ang boxin kaya tama lang na hangang 2 o3 laban atmagretiro na sya at pasukin ang bagong kabanata ng kanyng buhay , ang masasabi ko kay aries tanga sya pansarili lang ang gusto nya kay manny dahil sisiyahan sya kapag nkikipagbasagan ng mukha itong csi manny . mabuhay ka Pacman . gago itong kababyan natin na si aries di nag iisip .

  • robert 3 years ago

    tama lang na pasukin ni manny ang politika dahil 'yong mga politiko natin ngayon ay tumatanda na ng husto at hindi pa rin nasulosyonan ang problema ng bansang pilipinas at pati 'yong mga anak nila na walang kamuwang-muwang sa politika pinapatakbo nila para mapanatili sa kanila ang kapangyarihan. baka si manny pacquiao lang ang makapagbibigay ng solusyon sa mga problema ng ating bansa dahil si manny ay may karanasan sa kahirapan. karamihan sa mga politiko ay mga mayayaman at walang kaalam-alam sa kahirapan.

  • robert 3 years ago

    politicians in the philippines are getting older and just enriching themselves. the worst thing is their daughters and sons are joining them in politics. these people don't/can't solve problems but pacquiao can. because pacquiao has experience in poverty and he's already sharing his money with poor people even if he is not yet a politician. manny, i want you to make a law that will give millions to poor people. in every year there must be 364 0r 365 millionaires using government money. the government must make a millionaire evry day.

  • Mr. Impacho 3 years ago

    marami na talagang mukhang pera ngayon..wala nang inisip kundi pera,pera,pera..mukha na silang piso, mamera at sinko..kamukha na nila si lapu-lapu...kasakiman, lahat gusto!!hindi makuntento, gusto pang ARIin si Manny...Lubayan nyo muna si Manny, malapit na laban nya(lalo na doon sa mga taong habol ng habol sa kanya, kulang na lang magka palitan na kayo ng mukha!). And for Manny Pacquaio, ingat sa mga taong plastic at mang gagangtso!

  • alimatok 3 years ago

    everybody loves manny! that is, before his contract dispute began. Manny was the country's pride, a hero and the aspiration of most filipinos. He still is. But people change. So has manny. the contract dispute on which media outlet would air his upcoming fight with the hitman on may 2 has clearly distracted him and has made some of pacman's pure believers think twice after all. Yes, his just human and makes mistakes and has apologized. and we accepted that apology. Moving on, away from that sad period of manny's stardom and do what he does best concentrating on his upcoming megafight is what he should be doing, and that's what pacfans expected. But he did'nt. instead, he played the blaming game. C'mon! that media conference led by atty. gacal explaining this and that for me was irrelevant. but i guess that's what they call damage control. the media giant's involved in that dispute had no further comments. ans so should the pacman camp. you represent what a filipino is all about. you are the philippines pride. make us proud!

  • ronald 3 years ago

    I LOVE MY KIDS CECILIOPAUL AND MY WIFE JENNY,,

  • ricky 3 years ago

    "he is a sick liar and an intergalactic dumb ass" LOL.
    i love it mate!

  • carlos 3 years ago

    like in boxing, pacmans mistake is like split decision defeat. Now, after that humiliating experience, manny knows better. May i advise you manny to let your spokesman do the talking about legal and similar issues. Its an error that will make you more careful. to me, you are like a man occupying a position like that of a president of a country. You have a great responsibility not only to the filipino people but to worldwide fans. Like countless fans to me, you are a gift to boxing, not only that but divinely sent to spread the FAITH, HOPE and LOVE. I will vote for you whatever position you want in the phil. To those who say you are not qualified: manny has a battery of legal minds who can do the paper works. All what manny will say to his staff is: draft a good bill, plan with me what is good for the people and i will approve it. And ... they go to work. Meanwhile manny prepares for his next big figth against shane. Manny please dont retire yet until you reach 34. Hi! to all

  • MANG RESTY 3 years ago

    Given the kind of credentials he has it is expected of him to be more careful with his decisions.Actually all of us --needs to....

    www.pacfans-corner.com

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