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Dating Tips 101: friends with benefits relationships advice

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Friends with benefits relationships are b.s.

Gullible women have been sold a bill of goods by smooth talking, opportunistic booty hounds and players when it comes to friends with benefits relationships.

You women want to believe it means he finds you attractive but isn't ready for a girlfriend because his heart was broken, he got cheated on, he doesn't trust women, he has too much going on to commit, blah blah blah. In reality, he is telling you to your face that you are good enough to screw, but not good enough to invest feelings in.

Why aren't more women offended when approached in this manner? A man that barely knows you, yet approaches you so crassly is a disrespectful chump. He is letting you know up front that he is a butthole out to get what he can from you sexually, but at least he is being honest and warning you not to get attached because he is not looking for a relationship.

Some women don't understand that an FWB has no obligations or ties to you, so he is free to come in and out of your life, and jump in and out of your bed, while doing the same thing with other women IF he so chooses. An FWB cannot cheat. An FWB can go back to his ex-girlfriend or get a new girlfriend at any time and crack your face.  An FWB can sleep with your best friend, your Aunt, your neighbor and your sister, and you can't get upset.  You can see an FWB out with another woman and his tongue down her throat, and you can't say a word about it.

Being someone's FWB partner basically means that you are a provider of free sex services for a man that is flatly telling you that he will not commit to you because he doesn't like you "like that." Why would you do that to yourself?

And use of the word "friends" means nothing… its just a polite euphemism for "woman I am screwing who is one step up from a one-night stand." However women latch onto that word because it makes the fact that you are being used for sex more palatable, and some women use it to pretend they are at least a little bit special to the guy. But hear this ladies - frosting on poop doesn't make the poop turn into cake. In reality, your FWB has other guys for friends… he just wants you around for sex.

The romantic type of female with stars in her eyes will hang onto this shred of a relationship and wonder what the thing is that she should do or say to get this man to want only her. Shockingly, most women involved in friends with benefits relationships will be faithful to this guy. Not wanting to be perceived as 'ho or a slut, you sleep with just this one fella. And that is how he likes it, exclusive access to your bed and body without competition and without commitment. He does just enough to keep you tied to him while he roams free with the right to do whatever he wants with his other "friends." Most of you ladies that fall for this game will even turn down dates with other eligible bachelors in the hopes that your FWB calls.

Guys look for a friends with benefits arrangement so they always have a piece of tail to fall back on during those dry spells when they have no girlfriend. But as soon as he finds someone that he really likes, you'll never see or hear from him again.

Someone always catches feelings

Friends with benefits is a losing proposition for the woman looking for a loving commitment. Sex chemically binds a woman to a man with the release of a hormone called Oxytocin. Inevitably, a friends with benefits situation becomes confusing and hurtful when feelings develop.

A reader of this column wrote to ask: "Do friends with benefits always stay friends with benefits? That pretty much means that the guy finds the girl attractive too right? Do you think that the guy would ever want to be more? We're friends with benefits, but I'm kinda falling for him now and have no idea how he feels about that. I had told him before we got close that Ii didn't want a boyfriend, but I've changed my mind. Please help."

The bottom line here: if he just wanted friends with benefits and told you that from day one, it is extremely doubtful that the relationship would ever develop into more. Think about it… why would he want a serious relationship when he is already getting what he wants from you without being tied down?

Don't be afraid to communicate your needs clearly

If he's single and calls you frequently and chooses to spend a lot of time with you of his own volition, he's more susceptible to being open for love than if he's juggling three or four women at once.

If you were the one that initiated the "I just want to be friends with benefits, nothing more" conversation, then chances that he would be open to developing a serious relationship are actually pretty good. He may have wanted to date you and be in a relationship when you met, but since you told him you didn't want a boyfriend, he went with the next best thing.

If he got into the relationship wanting just an FWB, you should work under the strong presumption that that's all he wants. In other words, if he was the one that approached you with the FWB proposition and said he didn't want a girlfriend or to be tied down to anyone, chances are poor that anything more will come about.

Whatever you do, don't try to manipulate your way into his heart with games or by not taking proper precautions for birth control. Sure, accidents happen, but I'm not talking about an accident… I'm talking about allowing yourself to get caught up in a romantic dream where you become irresponsible about using proper protection.

If you have developed feelings for your FWB, have the courage to tell him. Sit down and straightforwardly express to the man that your feelings have changed and you want something more. Sometimes you will find that he feels the same way and was afraid to say something to you. However, you must prepare yourself for the possibility that you will instead hear that he has not changed his mind and still nothing more than a casual relationship with you. Are you prepared to cut ties with the FWB to move forward and find true love?

Your FWB may give you the option to continue seeing him on the same level, now that you know you will not get a commitment or a relationship from him. He may also tell you that if you are ready for something more he's okay with that and you going your separate ways with no hard feelings. Whatever you do, believe the answer you hear; make your decision accordingly and in your own best emotional and psychological interest.

Just remember, if you tell him that you want love and a commitment, yet you remain in an unsatisfying, uncommitted sex-based relationship, you need to shut up and not complain about it to anyone. Ever.

Whether out of horniness, loneliness or desperation, if you make the decision to involve yourself in a friends with benefits situation, remember that it was your choice. Any repercussions due to that choice are your sole responsibility. Any suffering or heartbreak you endure because of that choice is your own doing. Honor your body and your true emotional needs by giving careful consideration to the benefits and risks of a friends with benefits dating relationship.

Don't ever be afraid to say "no thanks…I deserve better."


Other Articles Of Interest by Deborrah Coopert : 

Why Women Are Attracted to Bad Boys, Thugs and Players

Confusing Lust with Love Creates Issues in Romantic Relationship

The First Rule of Dating - Be Who and What You Are

Dating, Lies and Deception are Often a Package Deal

The 7 Early Warning Signs of a Doomed Relationship

You are NOT in a Relationship, and He is NOT Your Man

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Comments

  • Laney Landry 5 years ago

    The old "why buy the cow" scenario. You are head on with this article. Too many chics live in this fantasy world thinking he's gonna get tired of playing the field and be "all mine." NOT! FWB. Who wants it...

  • Rose M. 5 years ago

    Amen.

  • allanonmage 5 years ago

    I'll take a FWB!

  • Sasha 5 years ago

    FWB that's a no-no. I'd rather be by myself and have my 'friendly' toys with no chance of getting my heart broken and hold out for the man who wants the 'whole set', mind, body, love, soul, than to settle for someone with the 'parts sold separately mentality. LOL. Having gone down that road years before, I can attest those things never work. Somebody always wants more and somebody ends up hurt.

  • Raz 5 years ago

    Wonder how many guys will post on this topic...hmmmm. Will it be a noticeable silence from the guys? They sure as heck turned out in droves to post on the paying for dates article and the why women are attracted to bad boys,playas and thugs.

  • DaCheeze 4 years ago

    As a man who has been burned by FWB once or twice.. I will tell you exactly why women fall for this... because you have low self-esteem and are desperate for companionship. You want the "bad boy with a heart of gold" that you can turn around. THATS why you fall for these cheap tricks that guys play. Nobody's putting a gun to your heads, either be serious to yourself about what you want and wait for it, or be quiet. It's your own choice.
    Women are just as prone to pushing the FWB stuff as well... they get a guy and lead him on, then get a charge of dumping him for someone else. Its funny when what goes around comes around... because it often does.
    Guys and gals, stay away from this kind of arrangement, because it does not qualify as a relationship. Relationships and friendships are built on trust and respect... FWB has none of that. FWB is a race to see who gets dumped first.

  • Man 5 years ago

    believe it or not, but some women are comfortable with the "FWB fad".

    Notice that I described it as a "fad" hoping that it will blow over eventually.....

  • Cool Breeze 5 years ago

    A FWB relationship is a waste of time. Eventually, one person is gonna want more--it always happens. Normally, you'd expect the woman to be the one to get all emotionally connected, but I know a cat that is tearing his hair out because this chick he's dealing with just wants him for sex. He's 48, divorced with two kids and she's 29 and still in party mode. I personally think that she's the one that suggested the FWB relationship, because he ain't that hip.

    When he sees her out with another dude, he gets all bent out of shape, but she has told him numerous times that all she wants from him is the "D" when she needs it.

    I told him that if he's got feelings for this woman and all she wants from him is sex, he's got to leave her alone if she won't commit. Of course, I was the only cat telling him to leave homegirl alone. The other dudes at the gym were like, "Man you've got it made!! Don't mess up a good thing listening to Cool. That mofo is crazy. Keep hittin' that sweet young thin

  • kissyface 5 years ago

    You assume that women are getting tricked into these types of relationships, but many women choose them. Why? For the same reason men do!! Wake up, sista girl, this is the 21st century! There's nothing wrong with a woman wanting to have her sexual needs filled! If, as you say, a woman doesn't want to be seen as a ho then she chooses one man to have sex with. At that point, she's free to continue dating and looking for a long term partner without the worry that she's looking like a slut (because the old double standard is alive and well.....men who sleep around are "sowing their wild oats" but women who do are sluts). When the need for the relationship is over, end it.

    Your article makes the assumption that women aren't getting anyting out of these relationships, when the fact is, they are. The fact that this arrangement doesn't suit your life doesn't mean it's not a valid arrangement for someone.

  • Cool Breeze 5 years ago

    A FWB relationship is a waste of time. Eventually, one person is gonna want more--it always happens. Normally, you'd expect the woman to be the one to get all emotionally connected, but I know a cat that is tearing his hair out because this chick he's dealing with just wants him for sex. He's 48, divorced with two kids and she's 29 and still in party mode. I personally think that she's the one that suggested the FWB relationship, because he ain't that hip.

    When he sees her out with another dude, he gets all bent out of shape, but she has told him numerous times that all she wants from him is the "D" when she needs it.

    I told him that if he's got feelings for this woman and all she wants from him is sex, he's got to leave her alone if she won't commit. Of course, I was the only cat telling him to leave homegirl alone. The other dudes at the gym were like, "Man you've got it made!! Don't mess up a good thing listening to Cool. That mofo is crazy. Keep hittin' that sweet young thin

  • Raz 5 years ago

    Psychologists say that people who can be continually sexually intimate with someone and still remained emotionally detached, display the same character traits as those of sociopaths. These are people who sometimes (in extreme cases)become serial killers. With people who have sex for money there is a difference in that they have the mindset that this is a job, thus they never view sex as a form of intimacy rather they are delivering a paid service, the same as one would pay for a massage. But even on that level, if a prostitute has regular customers, she can develop mild feelings for them. FWB is not much more than that. I don’t see how people can engage in the most physically intimate act with another person and still remain emotionally detached.

  • FWB and Proud 5 years ago

    wow...so according to you I am a desperate sociopath because I choose to have an ongoing sexual relationship with someone without being in a committed relationship with them? no offense, that is what is b.s. Yes there are many people in FWB relationships who think it will lead to something more. But don't assume that everyone fits into that category.
    I am a well-adjusted, sane female who at chose to be in a FWB relationship. I met a guy, we dated and got along great but both realized that a long term relationship wasn't in the cards. the sex was great so we continued having it. When I was dating someone else we wouldn't have sex but we would still hang out and he was emotionally there for me through some hard times. Now we live in different cities but remain friends and he is a great sounding board for any man-issues I may have. I don't regret my FWB decision at all...the sex was great, we respect each other and I didn't have sex with every new guy I dated because I had my FWB

  • DaCheeze 4 years ago

    No, I think what Raz is saying is you have no idea what you want.

  • Raz 5 years ago

    Hey FWB& Proud, do you if that makes you happy. Different strokes for different folks. I’d have to wonder though. If I’m knocking boots with one dude, while getting to know another dude in a romantic way, how open would I be to having someone else in my life, especially if I am having ‘great sex’ with my FB? Am I in the way of possibly having another guy come into my life fully when my bed is already occupied? And even if I stop sleeping with my FWB if I had one, while dating someone else, knowing he is there on the back burner just waiting around would likely make me try less harder with a possible new beau. I can’t have one foot in and one foot out or in this case, one P***s in and one p****s out at the same time while claiming to be interested in somebody new. But that’s just me.

  • Raz 5 years ago

    You know why is it that when people claim to be proud of something, they act all defensive? If they are so confident of their stance, why feel the need to defend it? Just keep doing them if they are 'proud of it'.
    No need to 'xplain thangs to the rest of us.

  • Madison 5 years ago

    I personally think that people who can’t go for a time in between relationships without having ‘sex’ (using sex as a crutch) don’t really make for quality mates. They can’t stand alone on their own. They always have to have somebody waiting in the wings. Don’t think that somebody will go away even if they were to find themselves in a committed relationship with someone else. Out of habit, they’ll be used to having the old faithful ‘D” or ‘V” on standbye and will run back to it with a quickness at the first sign of trouble in their relationships. I say avoid people who tend to do the FWB route. Emotionally they are poison and are probably more likely to cheat.

  • Jace 5 years ago

    I think for most women its hard to detatch themselves emotionally from whoever their FWB is regardless of how much they may claim to just want to "get some" or what not. Yeah sure, its partially the guy's fault for taking that pitch with girls to try to lure them into a one night stand, but I really think women need to set their standards a little higher and have a bit more self respect if they really want to keep from getting themselves hurt in the longrun.

  • Raz 5 years ago

    Jace good points For women sex and emotions are tied much more closely than for guys that's just the way it is.FWB&Proud of it, can't see that by keeping an ongoing relationship with her FWB, she is blocking herself from meeting and having success with anybody new so she may as well be with the FWB as the man in her life. Her comment below proves this. She has man problems, wonder why? She confides with her FWB, does she talk to her current romantic interest about the problems she has or does she always run back to her FWB? (it seems she does the latter to me). How can she form a healthy new relationship when her sexual and emotional needs are tied up with her FWB and she can't let him go?
    FWB&Proud of it says
    "When I was dating someone else we wouldn't have sex but we would still hang out and he was emotionally there for me through some hard times. Now we live in different cities but remain friends and he is a great sounding board for any man-issues I may have."

  • Shelby 5 years ago

    FWB and Proud, said 'I don't regret my FWB decision at all...the sex was great, we respect each other and I didn't have sex with every new guy I dated because I had my FWB"

    If things were so great with your FWB, what factors prevented you all from being a fully fledged couple? You're saying having a FWB prevented you from sexing each new guy you dated. Man are you that sex hungry that you have to have a meal on the side while you are lunching at the dinner table? You shouldn't be sexing each new guy you're dating anyway because that clouds getting to know them. And if you're sexing your FWB how open can you be to developing any physical and romantic interest in a new guy? Raz called it when he said you can't concentrate on a new guy if you're still physically and emotionally tied to someone else even if that someonoe is what you call a FWB. That gets in the way of your meeting new guys and you're fooling yourself if you think otherwise.

  • RandomDude 4 years ago

    /Guy and I refuse to ever be FWB. I can easily see the danger of becoming attached to someone who doesn't give a whit for you, and I'm not just talking about the guy in that situation. Women can act the same way.

  • Jenny 4 years ago

    I actually just approached a male friend of mine for a FWB relationship. I just graduated college and am hanging around town till the end of summer. I've only slept with 1 person so far in my life and do not party. My friend is single as well and we've known each other for two years.
    I'm not emotionally attracted to him as a boyfriend but he's a really cool buddy.
    We haven't slept together yet but I was surprised by the tone of this article b/c I don't see myself as being used. He's just a fun and safe sex partner to experiment with. I don't think it's a problem.

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    Deborrah Cooper 3 years ago

    You won't think its a problem until it is one.

  • Natalie 4 years ago

    What's up with people wanting to victimize women?!..."Friends with benefits is a losing proposition for the woman looking for a loving commitment".You said it right:"FOR THE WOMEN LOOKING FOR A LOVING COMMITMENT". If a woman wants to have fun without any strings or attachments then so be it! There is no reason why women should feel offended in a FWB relationship. Women are not only providers for free sex but also recievers if they know how these relationships work.Double standard much?!

  • Anonymous 3 years ago

    ah.... did you ever think that FWB is just as great an option for women for many reasons. None of which need to be justified to ANYONE!!! Get a grip on your neg slant as if all women are stupid and would be a slut for choosing to have an FWB... Ya... for someone who's sounds like such a man-hater you might want to try being a man-eater for a change. It might lighten up your neg sarcastic attitude. Good grief!

  • Lovena 3 years ago

    Ok Im little curious to know..why is it that when a woman is in an FWB relationship she is automatically labelled as having low self esteem or whatever?? what about the men who r in FWB ..what does it say about them?? In your article all u say is oh the women go in expecting this and that blah blah..see women r emotional that is true but if we go into an FWB relationship with the same intention that a guy approaches it then why does it mean we have self esteem or any other issue??when a guy goes into an FBW no one says he has emotional problems or anything...so why only a woman?? it only ruins it when women or men get it confused or expect it to be a normal relationship...

    so why hate?? i just graduated from medical college im a doctor i have a wonderful family..just got out a relationship of 3 yrs..and someone i knw approached me for this FBW i did the smart thing by thinking about it first coz i didnt want to end up falling for him and deciding if this is what i want right now..i believe with all my heart u can choose who u allow to have feelings with..in life we always have choices..so if i choose to be in an FBW with my mind set clear then why cant i do it just as u say a guy can do it if he wants to..why think women r weak in that area?? we r not..we are just as strong if we wanna just sleep with a guy without falling in love thats up to us...no one has the right o judge us and say we r bad or gng end up as serial killers..

  • Anonymous 3 years ago

    A lot of people label men who have FWB relationships too, particularly if they have multiple relationships: it's called satyriasis! Personality and self-esteem definitely have a place in looking at the need or pursuit of multiple partners in a culture that calls for only one.

  • Anonymous 3 years ago

    Thank heavens for your common sense approach to a social disaster in the making for any women who wants real love! When women decide they must ignore their own best interests to fulfill their sexual needs, they are truly giving into sexual desire to their own disadvantage.

  • Anonymous 3 years ago

    I have a married fwb and have been seeing him for over a year now! We met online and hit it off straight away, he isn't seeing anyone else neither am ,I after being in a 8 yr relationship I wasn't looking for another one.
    Do I feel bad that he has a wife? Hell no! He's the cheat! YES I'm emotionally detached, NO I'm not desperate It's the BEST SEX I'VE EVER HAD! minimum 3 hours. Who wouldn't say no he's hot, sexy, horny, great body,great kisser etc........I'm hot too btw ...... just a bit of fun until I'm ready to find my Mr Right.
    Don't hate on me, I'm having a great time...... You need to get yours.

  • james 3 years ago

    Can someone PLEASE teach this women grammar! It's not "an FWB" its "a FWB"! Learn how to use the word an and go back to school!!!

  • Anonymous 3 years ago

    can anyone answer a question for me?

    I am in a FWB situaution, but for over a year now me and the guy have gone back and forth between who is feeling it and who is not.
    will we ever find something mutual? it seems like whenever he is interested in starting something, im not and vise versa.

    Now he says i should just be content with where we are now, he calls that place exclusive sex. WHAT DOES THAT EVEN MEAN?

    I do have feelings for him but if we cant find middle ground I am out. Is there hope or should I just throw in the towel now.

  • tam_tam 3 years ago

    I am in a fwb relationship with a guy that I have been friends with for 6 or 7 years! It was a mutual decision, I just got out of a 4 yr relationship that was very rocky and I am still hurt from it. My fwb and I have always had some sexual tension between us and now we usually see each other 2-3 times a week. We have a good relationship and I hope we don't screw it up by our sexual needs but right now things are going GREAT!!!! He is a good guy and if things turn into more I will be happy and if they dont, I know that their is plenty of other men around! These relationships only work if you openly talk about things and make sure both people are on the same page.

  • deeply in his arms 3 years ago

    first of all mrs.cooper just bcause fwb probaby happend to you desn't mean its all about sex cause it's not he/she proably isn' ready for a relationsip because he /she is scared of bein heart brokin like me like i like this boy alot and he likes me alot 2 but your saying he/she is using he/she for sex WRONG we don't have sex at all with each other or with other people. We are just friend we can go out at any point of time we think were actually ready for a relationship. So your whole thing with this fwb desn't mean anything but SEX to you!! You really got to b out of your head. I talk to other boys as friends and he talks to other girls as friends but me nd he feel the same way we just arent ready to commit ourselves to each other FWB doesn't mean sex hoping!! (but you have your opinon and i have mine) were more like in casual relationsip

  • deeply in his arms 3 years ago

    first of all mrs.cooper just bcause fwb probaby happend to you desn't mean its all about sex cause it's not he/she proably isn' ready for a relationsip because he /she is scared of bein heart brokin like me like i like this boy alot and he likes me alot 2 but your saying he/she is using he/she for sex WRONG we don't have sex at all with each other or with other people. We are just friend we can go out at any point of time we think were actually ready for a relationship. So your whole thing with this fwb desn't mean anything but SEX to you!! You really got to b out of your head. I talk to other boys as friends and he talks to other girls as friends but me nd he feel the same way we just arent ready to commit ourselves to each other FWB doesn't mean sex hoping!! (but you have your opinon and i have mine) were more like in a casual relationsip

  • Tired of FWB's 3 years ago

    As a guy I'm not to sure about FWB's. My wife had cheated on me while I was stationed over sea's. Now we're devorced and our 4 children live with me. I'm around 30 and in good shape, I've dated a few women since and I alway run into the situation, after dating for a while the lady just wants to have a FWB type relationship. I've been seeing the same woman know for six months now, its not just sex, we hang out at her place, we go out all the time, talk evey day, and hang out with both of our friends. I really have allot of feelings for her. But she flat out refuses to "lable" what we have as a relationship. She claims that FWBs works just fine for her. I think the reasons she wants it that way it that she is very independent, doesn't want children, and she was burned very bad by the last guy she was in love with( about 5 years ago), plus she's 10 years older then me. I'm not sure if I should walk away or not. She really is a huge part of my life.

  • Anonymous 2 years ago

    I was in an 8 year committed relationship with the first man I ever had sex with and after we broke up I was celibate for almost 2 years. The last guy I went on a date with I knew I wouldn't want a relationship with but we had sex anyhow. He is a fwb and I like it that way. I will continue to date and look for the guy I want to be with and now I won't be sooooo horny that I sleep with him on the second date like I did with my fwb. I don't think men are the only ones who are interested in this type of situation. I never thought i would do something like this but I am surprisingly fine with it. Adults can do whatever they want and we shouldn't care what anyone else thinks as long as we are happy with our decisions.

  • izyc 2 years ago

    I found my FWB online. It's not an easy task but it is possible
    Izyc
    FWB

  • Anonymous 2 years ago

    Ms Cooper,
    Wonderful writing, you are a gifted, thoughtful and very witty in a needling sort of playful way. You get the point across in a very simple and instructive way. Keep writing; the world needs your plain speaking perspective badly. You have a rare talent, I love good writing and I know it when I see it.
    By the way, I agree with you, FWB is a bum steer!
    William from Connecticut

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  • LadyBane 1 year ago

    I love my FWB relationship. The guy I am seeing is moving out of state in about 4 months and is not looking for anything serious but loves having passionate and frequent sex with one partner. I am currently in a sexless but open relationship (sexless due to partner's physical limitations) and prefer having just one sexual partner. I have a lot of fun with my FWB guyr: great sex, someone to flirt with when I am bored, and lots of hugs and kisses. We are very different people heading in different directions in life but we are both very happy to enjoy each other in the time we have together.

  • mrs matilda morgan 1 year ago

    Hello,  

    I am mrs matilda morgan from USA, i want to share a testimony of my  life to every one. i was married to my husband george morgan, i love him so much we have been married  for 5 years now with two kids. when he went for a vacation to france he meant a lady called clara, he told me that he is no  longer interested in the marriage any more. i was so confuse and seeking for help, i don't know what to do until I met  my friend miss florida and told her about my problem. she told me not to worry about it that she had a similar problem before and introduce me to a man called prophet okoro ahebhamhen who cast a spell on her ex and bring him back to her after 3days. Miss florida ask me to contact prophet okoro ahebhamhen.  I contacted him to help me bring back my husband and he ask me not to worry about it that the gods of his fore-fathers will fight for me. He told me by three days he will re-unite me and my husband together. After three day my husband called and told me he is coming back to sought out things with me, I was surprise when I saw him and he started crying for forgiveness. Right now I am the happiest woman on earth for what this great spell caster did for me and my husband, you can contact prophet okoro ahebhamhen on any problem in this world, he is very nice, here is his contact ahebhamhenspell@gmail.com. He is the best spell caster.

  • Elena 1 year ago

    i just want to share my experience and testimony here.. i was married for 6 years to my husband and all of a sudden, another woman came into the picture.. he started hailing me and he was abusive. but i still loved him with all my heart and wanted him at all cost…then he filed for divorce. my whole life was turning apart and i didn’t know what to do .he moved out of the house and abandoned the kids.. so someone told me about trying spiritual means to get my husband back and introduced me to a spell caster…so i decided to try it reluctantly. although i didn’t believe in all those things… then when he consulted his gods and cast a return and love spell, after 3days, my husband came back and was pleading. he had realized his mistakes. I just couldn’t believe it. .anyways we are back together now and we are happy. in case anyone needs this man, his email address omonigholovetemple@gmail.com his spells is for a better life. again his email is omonigholovetemple@gmail.com

  • MICHELLEWILSON 1 year ago

    i never believe there is real spell caster and I don't just know how to start am just short of word's ,Due to the help of dr drokoduwa, that has brought back happiness into my life that i have lacked for year,My name is michellewilson am from the United State of America,Am just so happy today because today has been the happiest day of my life and this happiness has brought me joy and am so happy,Because drokoduwa brought back my lover candy into my arms without any delay,After my lover left me for good 2years,i was in deep pain and always thinking because i truly loved candy,Until a faithful day i was searching for job online when say testimony about how drokoduwa bring back a broken home i ignore the testimony,Then again in which i had a lady list shouting in happiness about the great thing drokoduwa has done how dr okoduwa brought back her lover back into her arms within 36hours,when i had that goodness again i decided in contacting drokoduwa immediately,Because i was desperately in need of getting my ex back to life again,So i got in touch with him,Which then i told him my problem and he promised in bringing back candy back to my arms within 24hours,And then when i had that candy would be back to my arms within 24hours i was so happy and waiting to feel candy,And really candy came into my arms within 24hours,Begging me for forgiveness,i was so happy when i saw candy now my lover is fully back to my arms due to the help of this great spellcaster who has brought back happ

  • monica 1 year ago

    email me mrsprincy1@gmail.com i dont do fwb

  • ALIYA 1 year ago

    My name is Aliya Young i live in California, and i got married four months ago.My husband and i have been living a very happy and lovely life.so as time went on, i began to notice this strange attitude that he was possessing.He was now going out with other girls, to the extent that he was no longer picking up my calls, and he was not even sleeping at home anymore. I became confused and didn’t know what to do anymore.So i became worried and stranded, that brought so many thoughts into my mind, because i have never experienced a thing like this before in my life.So i decided to visit a spell caster, to see if he can help me out.So immediately i went to the internet, where i saw an amazing testimony of a spell caster who brought someone’s ex lover back, “great Dr OYAKHILO” so i contacted him immediately and i explained to him all my problems and he told me that it will be very easy for him to solve, compare to the ones that he has done.and he also gave me some proof to be really sure of his work, and he assured me that my husband will come back to me immediately he is through with the spell casting.and also he told me to put all my trust in him, and i really obeyed him.So it was 8:00 am on the next morning, when i was about going to work, when i received my husband’s call, and he told me that he was coming back home,when he came back he started apologized to me, and told me that he is very sorry for the pain that he has cost me.He really came back home, and that was how we conti

  • susan 1 year ago

    my story goes to everyone out there that are in the situation that i have also being through. and how i was saved.I have been rejected by my husband after nine(9) years of marriage just because another woman had a spell on him and he left me and the kids to suffer. one day when i was reading through the web, i saw a post on how this spell caster Dr Mlawi Rcum on this Email: spelloflovetemple@gmail.com have help a woman to get back her husband. and i gave him a reply to his address and he told me that a woman had a spell on my husband and he told me that he will help me and after 2 days that i will have my husband back. i believed him and today i am glad to let you all know that this spell caster have the power to bring lovers back. because i am now happy with my husband.his email : spelloflovetemple@gmail.com you can contact him for help and get your problem solved.

  • susan 1 year ago

    my story goes to everyone out there that are in the situation that i have also being through. and how i was saved.I have been rejected by my husband after nine(9) years of marriage just because another woman had a spell on him and he left me and the kids to suffer. one day when i was reading through the web, i saw a post on how this spell caster Dr Mlawi Rcum on this Email: spelloflovetemple@gmail.com have help a woman to get back her husband. and i gave him a reply to his address and he told me that a woman had a spell on my husband and he told me that he will help me and after 2 days that i will have my husband back. i believed him and today i am glad to let you all know that this spell caster have the power to bring lovers back. because i am now happy with my husband.his email : spelloflovetemple@gmail.com you can contact him for help and get your problem solved.

  • KIRAN 1 year ago

    Some people will say they give thanks to there family members but in my case i give thanks to Dr.Zabaza whose contact details are zabaza.logan@yahoo.com or give him a call on +2348182620374 For helping me to get my lover back into my life. I was so down casted when my lover left me but through the help of Dr.Zabaza we are back together and within the next few weeks we will be getting married. Once again Dr.Zabaza contact details are zabaza.logan@yahoo.com or call him on +2348182620374 Thank you so much Dr.Zabaza. My name is Kiran from Norway

  • Allison 1 year ago

    I fell in love with Johnnie when we were sixteen, but after High School we lost contact and this really affected my metal health. After all this time, I couldn't get him off of my mind cos he was very lively whenever i am around him. I tried 3 online spell which i saw on topic but they stole my money. I was introduce to Dr. Obas by a colleague i meant at a seminar in the capital city. I contacted him through email but i was afraid of losing my money again after all the other 3 spell casters done

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