At one time or another everyone has been hurt. Some people hold onto their hurt and it could effect their future relationships. When that happens you are dating someone with baggage. Could you deal with it?
Some people say to get out right away. Other people say that if you really love the person you will stay by their side no matter what.
There are all obstacles in relationships; money, sex, cheating, etc. If you truely love someone you will be able to get past anything. The only thing you shouldn't deal with is someone who cheated or abused you. Once someone hurts you they will always hurt you.
Sometimes it takes time for people to earn trust espeically when they feel like a doormat. If you give up on someone right away you are showing them that you didn't care, when part of you may have cared.
So if you are dating someone with baggage try to be understanding. Try to put yourself in their shoes. If you really love them show them it. Not only will they get better but you will make them see how much you really do love them. Don't let something small get in the way of a wonderful relationship.
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