Vancouver Talk show hosts Susan McCord & Guest host Sandra discuss the difficulties many people have in trying to find a loving relationship in the video attached to this article. Why are people so fed up with dating in this city? Many men & women are removing themselves from Internet dating sites & not going out in general. They can’t be bothered to try to meet anybody but then they constantly talk about how terrible it is not being in a relationship. We all make our choices in life and "we" are the ones who “allow people” to enter our world. If we shut ourselves off from believing in love physically & mentally, how will it ever happen?
We spend years going to school for our careers or to get that dream job we envision ourselves in, so why do we not invest time & energy into finding a long term relationship? It doesn't make sense at all! Choosing a life partner is just as or more important than a job choice, because after retirement you still have someone who loves you at home for many more years to come.
If you are happy being alone that is wonderful, but if you are just mad at the world because you aren’t meeting anyone, it’s time to start changing your attitude to attract people towards you. Love is a full time job and like any place of employment there are expectations. It takes work to do a good job and to reap the rewards ~ a loving partnership deserves the same respect! Why wouldn't you want to put all of your efforts into this important part of life. Choosing an amazing partner can open so many doors into your future.
Now get off the couch, stop complaining that there isn't anyone to date, get outside and put some energy into meeting someone! We are ALL worthy of having love in our lives. Quit pushing it away due to your fears or insecurities & embrace the reality that there is someone for everyone…There truly is. <3
Susan McCord @ http://www.youtube.com/twobeavers