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Cougar dating: The advantages of dating an older woman or man

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Young men and women are increasingly searching for women or men of older age for them not only to date with them but also making them their life partners. The concept of dating a MILF or Cougar earned popularity after the popularity of certain TV shows including Weeds, Desperate Housewives and Sex in the City etc. This new sexual trend was loved by Cougars as it allows the old women to seek younger men for sexual relationship. Some of the benefits of MILF or Cougar dating are given here below to understand the concept more precisely.

Benefits of being attracted to an older woman or younger man

Sexual experience: Most of the younger men and older women who get attracted to each other are known as Cougar/Cub daters. Main reason of this attraction is the sexual experience of the matured women. Most of the younger men get attracted to them to share their experiences of sexual life. Women with 40+ age might have experienced sex with a number of her lovers by that time which might have given her many opportunities to learn new things in this regard. The sexual abilities can provide the younger men an astonishing experience of their life. They can not only enjoy these moments through their experience but also learn a few new things every time they date with them, to use them in their future sex life.

Financial support: Another benefit of being the part of age is the financial support you can get from your sex partner, if you do not bother about his/her age. Many matured women having good financial back support younger men who need financial support and enjoy sexual relationship with them. Similarly many young women overburdened with debts develop sexual relationship with several matured men for getting out of their financial problems. In this way they not only satisfy their sexual needs but also learn to make money and managing their financial status. They can easily put off their financial burden after making sexual relationship with some matured men or women, even if they may not shower money on them.

Be matured: Last but not the least benefit of developing sexual relationship with matured women as they tend to be practically matured in sexual activities. Mostly men in relationship with young women do not relish their relationship due to immaturity and irresponsible behavior as most of the times they create dramatic situations through their changing moods. Long experience of dating and all these situations enable matured women to behave more sensibly than their age. Thus making sexual relationship or dating with matured or highly maintained younger women can give you gracious experience of your life.

Warnings for older dating

Maintenance of figure: Most of the older men and women have to maintain their physical appearance even if they have to go on their own for some time. You can naturally find an experienced and well maintained woman for your sexual relationship if you are careful in keeping off the overweight and remain fit.

Avoid bossing: Women should avoid being boss of their sex partner as they mostly try to overpower the young men in their relationship due to their motherly behavior. They mostly control their young partner more than a young woman as they expect a lot from them. They should communicate freely and honestly with their sex partner to avoid such situations.

What if you are in a relationship and want to sleep with someone older or younger?

This is a good question, in this day and age people are coming out of their shell and society is allowing people to be more open to their fetishes. Some couples allow their spouse or partner to play as long as they know about it, this is called an open marriage. However some couples embrace a SwingLifeStyle, which is swingers dating, this involves both spouses swapping each other for another spouse or engaging in same room sex. The couples that embrace this kind of lifestyle can enjoy an older person while their spouse or partner does the same.

Thus the information provided here above allows you to understand the sexual relationship between matured women and young men as well as matured man with young women, as well as the possibility of a swinging relationship. Age is no obstacle in such relationships. They usually share their experience with the younger partners which can help them in improving their sexual life in future. The legal status of both the sex partners in this caring and honest relationship eliminates the obstacles created by their age difference. All these factors make the concept popular among the matured women and young men and vice versa to enjoy their sex life in a unique manner. Couples however that are together and embrace a swinging lifestyle have more fun. For more information on Swinging couples visit my article on:

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