To some people love comes easy. They find the person of their dreams and are with them for a long time. For others, they can go years without someone and still yearn for that perfect love. They get discouraged and wonder if love is still out there from them. Truth is, it is. Love is out there for everybody. If you want a better love life it is time to clean up your love life.
Get a piece of paper and write down what your ideal relationship looks like. What your dream guy looks like and what qualities he attributes.
On the back of the paper write down where you would like to go and what you would like to do with this special someone.
Everyone has that one or few loves that meant a lot to them throughout their lifetime. Make a list of all of those guys that you meant a lot to you. The ones who were easy to get over or you liked for a short amount of time you could skip over.
Next get more paper and for each of the guys write what you admire(d) about that person. Then look at your list and see if any of them match up to your ideal relationship.
Last write down why it didn't work out with those guys. If you see a pattern such as he didn't appreciate me, you know what your problem is.
If you examine your relationship patterns you will see what you are doing wrong. You may think it's you but maybe you are actually going for the wrong guys. If you go after super hot guys who are players and you want a relationship you will get hurt. Try giving someone nice a chance if you want someone who truly cares for you.