Everyone has heard of 50 Shades of Grey. It is one of the most talked about books. Some people describe it as trashy but yet so many of us women can't seem to put it down. While reading it and thinking of the relationship between Annastasia and Christian is it hot or is there something wrong about it?
Some people are into S&M while some people are not. In the book Annastasia gets beaten by Christian during a sex game. Yet she continues to go on with the way things are.
Sex is supposed to be between two people that care about each other. When you love someone you do not hurt them. There is nothing hot about getting bruised by a guy. There is nothing hot about having someone control your life.
When someone loves you they trust you. you are able to have your own opinion on things. If someone tries to control you then they are not the one for you, no matter how hot they are.
Make sure the person you are with treats you right. Make sure that he is gentle and caring because those are the guys that you want to be around. A guy should never hit you, weather it is in the bedroom or not. You deserve to be respected and have someone care for you.