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A Gallup survey conducted in May found that Americans find extramarital affairs more distasteful than social controversies like suicide, cloning, abortion or medical testing on animals.
Approximately 92% of Americans said married men or women having an affair is morally wrong and the second worse taboo is polygamous relationships, agreed upon by 91% of Americans surveyed. Divorce and the death penalty were the two most accepted taboos with 62% of Americans saying that they are morally acceptable.
Even with an overwhelming majority of Americans showing disgust over cheating husbands and wives, many public figures caught having an affair have been able to move past the bad publicity and continue with their success. Every year there is at least one cheating husband or wife splattered accross every headline in the country and the same 92% of Americans who find it morally wrong are able to forgive them and move on.
Politicians are always under the spotlight when it comes to extramarital affairs. From John F. Kennedy and Marilyn Monroe to Bill Clinton and Monica Lewinsky, to Eliot Spitzer and Ashley Dupre, politicians have taken up a fair share of the 'extramarital affairs' section of the newspaper. But even with so many Americans hating on cheaters, it doesn't seem to affect their voting habits too considerably. A Gallup Poll in 2007 showed that 54% of Americans would have a problem with a presidential candidate who had an affair compared to 46% who said it wouldn't bother them at all.
Who knows which political party actually has more cheaters, but Gallup found out which political party members find extramarital affairs more acceptable. Republicans have the largest percentage of members finding extramarital affairs morally wrong with 97%, compared to 94% of Independents and 89% of Democrats. Men and women differ slightly on their perceptions with 8% of men find cheating acceptable and only 3% of women do. And there isn't much difference between the 18-to-29 age group and the over-30 age group.
One thing for sure. Almost every group of Americans find that having an extramarital affair, especially when you're in the public spotlight, is the worse thing you can do. But that doesn't mean you won't be forgiven.
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Why in the heck would anyone cheat on their spouse? I just dont get it.
Lou
www.whos-watching.es.tc
Why did they not ask about spamming? I'm sure 99% of people would agree that Lou is morally wrong for spamming everywhere.
Dave
www.stoploufromspamming.com
Oh yes! this is also part of the hypocritical behavior in this society. Everybody condemn what everybody does. Lying is also a big taboo and everybody lies, politicians, commercials, sellers, press, etc.
First, I think we link 'lying' and 'cheating' as a society. Second, I think that rather than being a hypocritical condemnation people consider cheating such a big taboo BECAUSE it is 'more likely' to affect them personally than abortion or the death penalty. Cheating is a basic, common, and obvious betrayal of trust that many people actually FEAR. I think that the fact that so many people consider it to be a forgivable offense more surprising than the fact that it is considered a moral taboo in the first place. Perhaps this is also indicative of the fact that cheating seems to common - no one wants it to happen to them so they label it as 'wrong' and yet, they know they might to it so they also label it as 'forgivable'.
*Biggest* taboo? That's ridiculous - most Americans think that simultaneous child and animal rape is much worse than cheating on one's spouse.
guess i was in the 9% of americans thats wasnt interviewed. lol stupid polls making it all up. i think your poll is sumb so now 50% of america thinks your poll is dumb.
It does not make sense to cheat on your spouse when you are married- the whole idea of being married is that you want to be monogamous.
there are tons of things that are worse than cheating on your wife. what a bunch of idiots.
Lorraine and Lou - clearly you have no idea what a sexless marriage is, or even that it exists. My husband has been refusing me sex for nearly 20 years. Just because you are married doesn't mean there is any sex in the relationship. Am I not allowed to seek satisfaction elsewhere?
Most people will agree affairs are universally wrong, but affairs are the most universally committed of those "taboos."
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