Will your cheating spouse sneak out on Mistress Day for a red
hot rendezvous with his mistress?
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February 13th is often referred to as Mistress Day – the day cheating men celebrate Valentine’s Day with the Other Woman.
Since a cheating husband or boyfriend usually reserves Valentine’s Day for his primary partner, he’ll set aside the day before Valentine’s Day, February 13th , to spend time with the woman with whom he’s having an affair.
As you can see, cheating Valentines of both sexes spend time together on February 13th or Mistress Day.
February 13th falls on Saturday this year – a day when people are usually busy with errands weekend chores. This fact may figure prominently in a cheating Valentine’s plans to meet his or her secret lover on Mistress Day.
The cheater could sneak off while you’re too busy to notice.
Or he or she may disguise the Valentine’s rendezvous as a weekend errand.
If you suspect your spouse or significant other of being a cheating Valentine, the tips below will either help you to either sabotage their plans -- or catch them in the act.
Keep Tabs on Your Mate on Mistress Day
Stay in constant touch by cell phone.
Give the cheating Valentine some specific errands to run which will occupy their time away from you.
Or accompany your spouse or significant as they run errands on Mistress Day or do weeke chores.
Plan a series of couples-oriented Valentine’s Day activities that will require the two of you to be together for the entire Valentine weekend.
Show up unannounced at the place where your spouse of significant other said they would be on Mistress Day.
Excuses to Get Away
Be very suspicious of flimsy or trumped up excuses from your spouse or significant other to go somewhere, or do something without you on February 13th.
Cheaters can come up with all kinds of excuses to spend time with their lovers on Mistress Day. See 5 Common Excuses Cheating Men Use to See Their Mistresses
Cheating husbands and boyfriends will generally use some type of work-related excuse. A cheating wife or girlfriend will usually give an excuse that involves shopping, or a sick relative or friend.
Missing in Action on Mistress Day
Be very suspicious if your spouse or significant other goes missing for an extended period of time on usual weekend chores that take twice as long on Mistress Day.
Check for anything unusual when he or she returns home.
Your cheating husband or boyfriend may have taken his mistress to dinner or lunch so he could give her her Valentine’s Day gift.
Check his pockets for incriminating hotel or restaurant charge slips or receipts. Men will frequently stuff receipts into their pocket without thinking. Or he may carelessly toss the contents of his pockets on the nightstand, or the top of the dresser when undressing without a second thought. Take a quick look to see what you can find.
When your wife or girlfriend returns home check her appearance. Is she’s wearing perfume, jewelry or lingerie, that she wasn’t wearing when she left home?
Does she have flowers, or a small gift item in her possession that she claims to have bought for herself?
Be Alert for Other Signs of Infidelity
Keep your eyes and ears open for other signs of infidelity on Mistress Day., February 13th.
You may come across many of the same kinds of telltale signs you find at other times of the year.
To help you spot other signs of infidelity , send for a free copy of the special report Is He Cheating? Is She Cheating? - 21 Ways You Can Tell. E-mail InfidelityInfo@gmail.com with “21 Ways - Xm in the subject line.
Check back several times over the next 3 days for more articles on how to catch a cheating Valentine.
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*** © copyright 2010 Ruth Houston All Rights Reserved.
Ruth Houston is a New York-based infidelity expert who is frequently called on by the media to comment on infidelity issues in the news. She is the author of Is He Cheating on You? - 829 Telltale Signs, the founder of www.InfidelityAdvice.com and publishes the Infidelity News and Views blog.
For more information on Valentine’s Day infidelity, or on catching a cheating spouse or significant other, see
The 2010 Annual Valentine’s Day Infidelity Awareness Campaign
5 Common Excuses Cheating Men Use to See Their Mistresses
What You Need to Know About Your Husband’s Mistress and Why
13 Things Everyone Should Know About Signs of Infidelity
Is He Cheating? – Is She Cheating? 21 Ways You Can Tell (free tip sheet)
Is He Cheating on You? – 829 Telltale Signs (softcover book)
Is He Cheating on You? – 829 Telltale Signs (e-book version with Affair Recovery information)
The Best Investment You Can Make in Your Relationship for 2010
What Should I Do If I Think He or She is Cheating on Me?
What NOT to Do If He’s Cheating on You
5 Things You Shouldn't Do If He's Cheating on You (free tip sheet)
Free Infidelity Tip Sheets and Special Reports
Infidelity Resources to Help You Catch a Cheating Mate
Comments
There is a wealth of information available on a computer in a home. Instant messages, chats are recorded in temporary internet files. These, email messages, etc. can be searched using a tool like biterscripting. A command like
script ss_findstr.txt dir("C:/") str("last night")
will find any conversations containing those words (if they exist on the computer).
Check it out.
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