If you are in a relationship then you know how challenging it can be.
If you are fortunate enough to be with someone who committed to being monogamous then you are really lucky. This is definitely one less challenge to worry about.
For some individuals monogamy is something that they have never even thought about. They are just in relationships for the sake of being in a relationship with no intentions of being with just one person. This is where the confusion and problems occur.
On one hand you have two people in a relationship and one of them has no idea that the other one is stepping out (being with other people) Once the person who is clueless finds out what's really going on that's when people get hurt both mentally and in some cases physically. The hurt from these types of situations is hard to get over.
For some people recovering can take months and in some cases years. When it takes a while to recover it simply means the idea of possibility going through that type of pain again is too much to think about or even bare. In a lot of cases individuals would just rather be alone.
When it comes to monogamy you would think that most people would jump at the possibility. The idea that someone wants to be in a relationship with one other person, who wouldn't want that. Unfortunately, some people can't appreciate the possibilities.
For those who can appreciate monogamy don't give up hope. If you don't have hope for yourself no one else will. When the time is right hopefully you will cross paths with someone who can appreciate the idea of a great monogamous relationship just as much as you.
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