Trying on dresses, tasting cake, trimming the guest list. There are so many to-dos on the to-do list that some basic pre-planning may slip by the wayside. But thinking through details ahead of time will make for a picture-perfect wedding and reception and a photogenic and relaxed bride and groom:

1. Lighting -- Schedule an outdoor wedding and/or reception either in the morning or a couple of hours before sunset.  Midday light can be harsh and unflattering and tricky even for pros. Late afternoon rays in particular have warmer tones, and properly exposed images with the setting sun are gorgeous. Many reception halls and churches, particularly historical ones, can be like dark caves. Make sure it's okay to have the photographer set up lighting, if that's his/her style.

2. Think Drama -- Add candles, lanterns and other light sources for visual interest for indoor and evening events. "Think theatrical when it comes to designing the reception," said Gainesville native and wedding photographer Gene Bednarek -- the cake in front of an arched window, or centered in the room, is far more visually interesting than placed against a white wall under an exit sign! While you're at it, scout for areas that would make for good group shots -- clean, uncluttered, roomy.

3. Dress, Hair, Makeup, Smile -- Since the bride is the center of attention, the dress should be fitted as close to the wedding day as possible, the makeup and hairstyle needs a day-long test run or two, and even your most flattering smile should be practiced -- all this will lead to a photogenic bride who radiates confidence. 

4. Make a list, check it twice -- Then hand it to someone else. Whoever volunteers to help, give them a task. It will free up the couples' time and enhance the sense of community by having the guests involved.

5. Don't sweat the small stuff -- Every wedding will take a detour of some sort. Something will be forgotten, or lost, or there could even be a family drama. The bride and groom set the tone of the wedding, so plan for the unexpected. The smile you practiced will come in handy. Those moments often make for the best photos -- re-watch the Four Weddings and a Funeral scene where best man Hugh Grant can't find the rings for a humorous reminder that weddings do go on, no matter what.

(For story suggestions or feedback, contact Carla Hotvedt at SILVER IMAGE® Weddings via carla@silverimageweddings.com)