The relation to others is more than just relationships and who we hang out with. Relation can be a point of understanding and success. To realize that with relationships to others as acquaintances, clients, or as guests can bring ease of life as we relate to one another with providing comfort to each other.
When needs are expected and recognized, reciprocating them through the actions brought to other people in your personal vicinity can be a sign of mental growth.
Being the one who doesn't withdraw from the act of just being able to relate is one who relies on an internal motivation. It is in the belief that something can be done at that moment because through heeding time and considering what has been appropriate. One must not worry when that exact time to take action may be just a sense to respond to the circumstance at that time.
If you relax and let your conscience take hold, you would have believed you are meant to some degree for the supposed responsibility without letting it pass you by, which is to love on those around you. To be accountable doesn't mean fulfilling every aspect of the responsibility in which you have no knowledge of or can't even imagine. When those "responsibilities" to fulfill come up as a passing thought and your only control at this point is to dismiss them until a later time (or otherwise) then be it that it is done.
It's up to you and your stability to not add on to your "troubles" to get overworked. Focus on your peace, what makes most sense to you in this life and so then you are being proactive rather than inactive.