Skip to main content
  1. Life
  2. Relationships
  3. Sex & Relationships

BDSM ideas to spend time with your Valentine’s Day partner

See also

Valentine’s day is right around the corner, and love is in the air. February has always been considered the month of love. Chocolate factories and cupid work overtime this month. On 14th February, you will definitely spend a lot of time with your partner. During this time, many couples want to try something new and exciting. Fulfilling your BDSM fantasies can be a perfect choice.

A lot of couples have some deep and exciting fantasies. Most of these are related to submission and dominance. Your sexual fantasies can easily turn into some of the most erotic and kinkiest times in the bedroom. Valentine’s day is the perfect occasion to use some excellent BDSM ideas with your partner, and bring back the spark in your sex life.

Who will Dominate?

This needs to be your first consideration. You need to figure out who’s going to dominate and who’ll play the submissive role. Once you’ve figured this out, you should start slowly. One of you may even have a specific request, like a foot fetish. Being blindfolded can also be a good idea to spice things up. You can choose from a wide range of soft eye masks and sexy shoes for your partner.

Use Restraints

Many couples want to try bondage. If you are one of them, you should get some good restraints. You can easily buy ankle cuffs and wrist cuffs to hold your partner to a post, bed, chair and so on. A silky bondage rope can be the perfect choice for restraints. On the Internet, you can find a lot of information in sexy rope tying techniques.

Role Playing

If you want to explore BDSM even further, role playing can be a good idea. You will need to buy kinky and cute costumes according to your preferences and desires. This way, you will be able to transform your lover into a naughty nurse, sexy school girl, horny fireman, innocent maiden, sexy secretary or whatever you like. Many couples prefer playing the sailor and prostitute. It is extremely popular for couples with BDSM fantasies.

Add Some Cuisine

Once you’ve tied your partner with restraints, you can also add some cuisine to the mix. You can tie her up and gently feed her dark chocolate or strawberries. Using whipped cream over her body can also be a good idea. You can get more wicked if you want to. For instance, you can tie her up with her hands behind her back, and spread her legs. Now, you can tie a soft eye mask so she can’t see the vibrator you’re taking close to her g-spot.

You can also tease your partner with some fruits. Feeding her some cherries while teasing her with the vibrator can make her go completely crazy. During BDSM, using sex toys can be the perfect thing to spice everything up. Food items just add more eroticism to everything.

While she’s tied, you can play with her body, probing and poking her with a vibrator until she’s unable to handle it. While doing this, feed her some fruits occasionally and she will feel the sexiest sensation between her legs. Moreover, you should make sure her legs stay open, and she’s unable to bring them back together until you’re done. It won’t be long before your girl experiences the best orgasm of her life. If you have ever heard of any bondage stories bringing spice to couples lives, then you may want to indulge in this on Valentines day.

Get Creative and Exciting

These were just some of the kinkiest and erotic BDSM ideas for your Valentine’s day partner. You should try to get more creative and exciting with sexy fetishes and bondage gear. In order to enjoy more, you should use something you haven’t tried with her before. The whole idea is to make her night even more special. Thus, you should not forget buying her a sexy lingerie for the night. It can be the perfect Valentine’s day gift for her.

Regardless of how you choose to play with your partner on Valentine’s day, you should let her enjoy completely. You should keep trying new things, while making her feel comfortable. Try to use some bondage equipment and kinky toys to spice everything up. Restraints, eye masks, hunters and other such items can be perfect. Just make sure you and your partner have a lot of fun and explore each other completely. Give your partner the best Valentine’s day of her life.

Advertisement

Life

  • Dead babies found
    Seven dead babies were found in Utah resident Megan Huntsman's old home
    Video
    Shocking Discovery
  • Kendall Jenner
    Get the Coachella looks: Kendall Jenner’s nose ring, green hair and edgy nails
    Camera
    Coachella Look
  • Dog's Easter basket
    How to fill your dog’s Easter basket with the perfect toys
    Easter Basket
  • Rabbit owners
    Bringing home the bunny: Important information for rabbit owners
    Camera
    7 Photos
  • Haunted island
    The world’s most haunted island may soon be the most haunted luxury resort
    Haunted Resort
  • Sunken ferry
    Search continues for missing passengers after a ferry sinks off the South Korean coast
    Video
    Sunken Ferry

User login

Log in
Sign in with your email and password. Or reset your password.
Write for us
Interested in becoming an Examiner and sharing your experience and passion? We're always looking for quality writers. Find out more about Examiner.com and apply today!