If you have resolved to find love in 2011, but wonder how you’ll find the time, these tips are for you. These seven small things will take less than ten minutes a day and will help you to find romance.
1 - Start every day by listing the top five things for which you are grateful. Your positive attitude will attract others and you’ll feel better overall. What do you have to be thankful for? Is it your pet, your home or your favorite food? What about your health, sunshine, or your friends or family?
2 - Your smile is a magnet. Smile at people whenever you get a chance. You’ll feel good and they will undoubtedly find you more attractive.
3 - Talk to someone you haven’t met every day. Just a quick hello and a smile will do. If someone stops to chat, introduce yourself and continue the conversation for a few minutes.
4 - Get out of your routine every day. Go to the gym at a different time and see who is there. Vary the time or place that you do your errands. Walk a little more or shop in another neighborhood.
5 - Exercise outside. Park a few blocks from your destination and pay attention to who walks by. Don’t forget to smile and say hi to as many people as you can. Your friendliness will make it easier to connect with someone special.
6 – Keep the pods out of your ears when you’re out and about so that you’re available for conversation.
7 - Be open to possibilities. Your stereotypes may be your biggest barrier to love. Befriend people who are not “your type” and see if attraction blossoms. The myth of love at first sight has lowered many people’s ability to find romance. Attraction that builds up over time can also create very hot chemistry.
At first, you’ll have to pay attention to following these resolutions. But, after a while, they will become a way of life that will allow you to have more fun every day.
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