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Hi, Michael
I lost my dog and I miss her very much. I left my husband 3 years ago and I’m very lonely. I don’t get out much and I don't have many friends. I don't think I’m pretty and I’m fat… I want someone to love me so bad and I want to love someone too. Will I always be lonely and will I ever find love again? I will be 50 soon is it too late for me to find love?
Saundra, K. Vermont
Saundra,
First let me say I can truly feel your pain as far as the loss of your dog, having gone through it myself recently, it is a brutal feeling, but it will subside. Just realize she is still by your side now and always.
Now for the point at hand, you my lady must regroup, change your core thoughts. You must stop thinking and saying that you are fat or not pretty! You must try as hard as you can to find the good things and areas within yourself and nourish them. STOP focusing on the negative thoughts!
The subconscious mind works in images and is a very amendable to suggestions. You need to see yourself the way you want to be, the way you want to feel, see this as a present reality, not as a want or need, if you focus on what you lack it surly will create even more of that lack within your life.
It’s time for you to take a cleansing bath if you may. Time for you to find the beauty within once again, no matter how small you think it is. It feels good to love oneself, and if you have forgotten how just remember the love you have shared in the past.
Each and everyday take that refreshing bath of good thoughts, do the things that make you feel love and you may find that you will draw the strength you need, thus draw the people and things needed to continue your happiness in the way you see fit.
This is your first vital step, Remember the happiness and love you have felt before and apply it to yourself, you deserve it. It’s never to late to find love.
Smiles, Michael Schuessler
"Changing The World One Orgasm ~ At A Time"™
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