February is historically known as the month of Romance. We have Valentine’s Day and the sweet conventional belief that birds begin to choose their mates during this month. This February, if you’re looking to bringing some romance into your life, here are simple steps you can follow :
Get “ Romance Ready” - You never know where you’re going to meet your mate. A friend of mine met hers while pumping gas. She showed up, smiled, and the rest is history. Go out every day as if this is the day you’ll meet your mate. Look, smell and feel great. Healthy and Confident is definitely sexy.
Smile , be fun and lightly flirtatious . Smiling , happy people are natural people attractors. Can you think of anyone who isn’t attracted to a happy, smiling face and someone having fun?
Be mindful of your surroundings and see things for what they are. The best way to do this is to be “ present” . Be in the now. Be yourself and show up as yourself. This way you present yourself as you really are . You don’t need to start becoming someone you're not.
Be available. Send the message that you are ready to date. Make it fun. Dating is not supposed to be a chore. Have it be fun for you and create it as an exciting new opportunity. Remember , this person is new, not a copied and pasted version of someone from your past.
Be the real YOU! Be the confident, sexy, fun, healthy you. You want to be the real deal and not a shape shifter into someone you think he/she wants. Show up as You and be confident and secure in who you are. Once you’re dating, look to see that your values match and that you have the same dating/ relationship goals. It’s actually best to have that clarity right from the get go.
Finally, have fun. Spring is in the air. Birds are mating and Cupid’s arrows are striking!