Whenever doubt starts to creep into a relationship as to whether your partner is being faithful, the temptation is to ask them straight out: Are you cheating on me? More often than not, the response will be in the negative, even if someone else has entered the romantic picture. Yet you are not powerless in this situation as there are other “tools” you can access to determine whether trust has been breached.
Although we don’t give it conscious thought, when we are in a relationship, we become attuned to the how we physically respond to our partner’s touch, the sound of their voice, how they look to us, even the taste of their kisses. By actually focusing on these powerful and primal sensory prompts, you can discover if there is a change in your partner that you can then explore with them.
Touch is perhaps the most primal and definitive of the sensory cues that can reveal if a new romantic interest has entered the scene. Where, before, the sensation of touch provided comfort, it may now feel more like a perfunctory action than one of sharing intimacy. Your partner may not even be aware that their touch is more remote. The body remembers even when the mind forgets and, if attention is paid, that difference or indifference, may be discovered.
The taste of your lover’s kisses are an emotional and chemical response to the passion between the two of you. When the emotions behind the kiss have changed, this, too, will be apparent. Again, it is as much about your reactions as the act itself.
Sound, though not as profound an indicator as kissing and touching, can still provide clues to a change of heart in a love relationship. There is a tonal resonance in the human voice that transmits affection that we all respond to. When there is a negative emotion, such as guilt or reluctance in the speaker’s heart, this resonance changes or vanishes. Again, by paying attention, not only to the sound of your partner’s voice, but your own internal response to it, hints that something has altered between you can be identified.
The question now is what to do with this knowledge. Naturally, speaking with someone who can provide an impartial view, such as a skilled online psychic reading, can let you air out your concerns so you can actually see them and allow you to get important feedback. From that point, you have two choices: keeping the status quo or discussing what you have noticed and felt with your partner to see how they respond.
Infidelity is never an easy issue to bring up or resolve. Ultimately, you will have to look within to decide how to proceed. Regardless of which choice you make, remember that you both are human and, as such, far from perfect. The destiny of love and relationships is often fickle and never clear yet, in the end, it remains one thing that moves us all.
About the Author:
Lou Raedwulfe is clairvoyant, tarot and rune expert and an astrologer who writes horoscopes internationally. He is also the author of several books including his newest book, 2013 Stones and Stars available at Amazon and Barnes and Noble for ereaders.