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The lateral meaning of Bondage is to tie or bound the partner for stimulating him/her aesthetically and erotically. In order to add adventure in sexual activity people usually use cuffs, rope, self adhesive bandages, bondage tape and various other similar products to restrain their partner.

Sadomasochism is not the basic idea behind bondage but it is mainly linked with increasing love and sexuality in an aesthetic manner. In this sexual activity one active partner ties up his/her partner so that both of them can enjoy the feeling of control and submission of the restrained partner. It is not done to end the love relationship between the partners as usually done by sadomasochistic people. Both the partners enjoy the pleasure of bondage differently as the restrained person enjoys the physical pleasure of his/her immobility and vulnerability whereas active partner enjoys the visual pleasure of the helplessness of his/her bonded partner.

The bondage is included in the sex life of many people occasionally or regularly to add an adventure in their sexual relationship or to renovate their sexuality through these fantastic activities or sex games. Normally sexual activities of this type are used in bedroom in the form of foreplay before actual sexual intercourse while stimulating the other partner. The extent of enjoyment of these games depends upon the level of surrender and trust of the restrained partner for the active partner. This surrender should be done happily with mutual consent and understanding to make it enjoyable. The more the understanding between the two partners, the more would be the pleasure and happiness. Read more:[The Most Popular and Electrifying BDSM Toys]

The vulnerability of the restrained partner for various sexual activities is the main feature of sexual bondage in bedroom, which makes the situation more adventurous. Actions of the active partner are responsible for the sexual satisfaction of the restrained partner as he/she is being treated as an object by him/her.

Bondage during sexual activities is liked by many people round the world for various reasons. Some like it for their inner feeling of freedom in the sexual activities with their passive partner whereas some may like it for enjoying the pain, struggle and exposure of the restrained partner during these activities. Read more: [BDSM lifestyle and its benefits]

Several household things including ropes and strings etc. can be used to improvise bondage in an easy and simple manner. One of the partners has to surrender willingly to be handcuffed or tied with household rope or strings while restraining him/her in the bedroom. Some people also tie up the eyes of the restrained partner to make the sexual game more adventurous. Fingering, masturbation, oral sex, intercourse or vibrator are some of the activities done by active partner to sexually stimulate the restrained partner in a typical way. Sexual teasing or erotic tickling, apart from sexual foreplay, can also be the reasons of tying up one of the partners in sexual relationship. A BDSM lifestyle has been embraced by couples, even swingers to introduce some extra kink.

The dominant situation can help the active partner to achieve sexual arousal and erotic pleasure whereas tied up partner has depend on his/her trusted partner for his/her arousal due to his/her helpless situation. Usually sexual partners include bondage into their sexual activities to include fantasy in their sexual relationship.

It has been proved through various studies and researches that large number of men, say more than 75%, all over the world are interested in bondage game in their bedroom. Out of these nearly 70% heterosexual men, 11% heterosexual women and 12% homosexual men like to play active role in these activities whereas 29% of the heterosexual men, 88% homosexual men and 89% heterosexual women like to play the role of passive partner. Some of the people had ignored bondage in their sexual activities due to its resemblance with sadomasochism. According to another survey approximately 25% people, including heterosexual, bisexual and homosexual men and women, added bondage in their sexual relationship to add the adventure of fantasy in it. Read more:[BDSM ideas to spend time with your Valentine’s Day partner]

Thus bondage is included in sexual activities by various people for various reasons but the main reason behind this concept is to add adventure to their sexual experience. It is experienced by all type of people including heterosexual, bisexual and homosexual men as well as heterosexual, bisexual and lesbian women in active as well as passive roles. Normally it is included in sexual activities to add fantasy to their sexual relationship instead of satisfying their sadomasochism.

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