Add a little domination to spice up your marriage

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If you would like to do something to spice up sex in your marriage, try a little domination. According to Isabelle Snow of Askmen.com, two of the top 10 female sexual fantasies involve domination. Thirdage.com reveals that domination is also in the top 10 of male fantasies. The secret desire to be dominated is evidenced in the number of bodice busting romance novels that are sold annually.

According to Romance Writers of America, romance fiction raked in $1.375 billion in estimated revenue. Almost every romance novel involves at least one scene in which the woman is ravished or dominated in an aggressive fashion. Some of the more erotic novels involve extreme domination, and some involve women dominating men.

What is it about being dominated that both men and women find so appealing? To be totally ravished by someone of the opposite sex is the ultimate in showing your desire for the person. It shows that you want the other person so much, nothing will stand in your way. It shows that the other person is the number one thing on your mind.

Another reason why being dominated is so appealing is because for those few moments you are able to totally give up control. In a society that seems to demand power in the workplace, the ability to give up that power in the comfort of your own home can be a very appealing idea.

Being dominated is appealing to many women because it enables them to experience sex at an entirely new level that they would probably never experience otherwise, due to the guilt that can be associated with sex that is a bit kinky. By giving control to her partner, a woman is relieved of the guilt that is normally associated with such activities.

Domination can appeal to men as well. Not only do men enjoy dominating, many also enjoy being dominated. For a man who is accustomed to being in control all of the time, giving up that control for awhile is very exciting.

Do not be afraid to approach the subject with your spouse.  Couples will often stay away from the subject, afraid of shocking one another.  When they finally do discuss it, they find that they have both been having the same fantasy.

There is something very primal about dominating and being dominated. It is raw, pure and intense. If you find the sex in your marriage has turned a bit boring, try a little domination. It may be as light as using a blindfold or trying a little light bondage. Whatever you decide, it is sure to add some excitement in your relationship with your spouse.