When a man sees a woman who looks like she has it all together, usually nine times out of ten she does.
The woman he sees is confident, well spoken, and depending on the time of day she is appropriately dressed for her day.
For some at first glance she seems kind of stuck up and unapproachable. In some cases she is. But then there is the other type of woman. This woman is strong but yet gentle, she is kind and when she smiles she will warn your heart. In addition once you take the time to say something to her and not pre-judge you will see she is very approachable. Food for thought, you should never judge a book by the cover.
In this situation it all boils down to one thing, men need to step up and be a boss. This means to take charge of the introduction as well as anything else beyond that point. If you want to have a conversation beyond that point and you want to find out more about her ask her for her number. What's the worse thing that can happen besides her saying no. If this happens thank her for her time and move on. But, if you happen to get the number be prepared.
If you ask a women for her number and she gives it to you this means you have made an impression and there is some type of interest. Guys make sure you use it. There is nothing more annoying than a man who asks a woman for number and never uses it. What's was the point?
When you do make the call make sure you know what you are up against. If she has it together she is expecting the same from you. Remember, a strong woman likes a man who will take charge. Not a man who will pretend to be something he is not. Believe me she will know the difference.
For those who are still unsure of what a boss is, a boss is a man who knows who he is, he can take charge while at the same time allow himself to be vulnerable. He makes a plan and he follows through. The best part about a man who is a boss, he is humble. Last but not least he is confident enough to be with a woman and celebrate and appreciate her strength.
Are you a boss? Or, are you pretending to be?