If you’re looking for some ways to drive your man crazy in bed, all it takes is a bit of creativity. It also requires that you step outside of your sexual comfort zone. Don’t be afraid to do the unexpected. So often we get caught up in our little insecurities that we fail to express our sexuality in the ways that we would really like to. If you are afraid that your man is going to laugh at your efforts, think again. Most men are going to be delighted that you are taking the time to do something different, and if anything they will be flattered at your attention.
Sarah and her husband, Mark, have lived in Charlotte for 10 years with their 2 daughters. When Sarah saw them approaching a sexual rut, she decided to surprise him one day. She met him at the door when he came home for lunch wearing a black negligee, black thigh highs, and heels. He was totally blown away, and she says that he still talks about that moment he walked in and saw her. Needless to say, Mark did not eat his traditional lunch that day.
Here are some things for you to try with your man:
Be a tease. There is nothing quite as stimulating as being slowly and sensuously teased in the bedroom. After all, what’s the rush? People tend to rush through sex as if it is one more chore to be tackled at the end of a long day. Run your fingers lightly over his body. Plant feather kisses on his face, his chest, his body. The trick to being a tease is that you are allowed to touch and kiss everything other than the most obvious place. He will be dying for you to touch or kiss him THERE, and the more you avoid it, the hotter he will get.
Fulfill a fantasy. If you listen to your man, you will know that there are certain things that excite him. He may tell you in passing, or you may overhear him talking to one of his friends. He may have even asked you at some point to try something that you were too shy to try. Well, if you want to get his motor racing, fulfill that fantasy for him (if possible). Don’t go against your own moral standards or put yourself in danger. However, if he has always wanted to try a new position, or if he wants you to dress up like a nurse…go for it! You might be surprised at how turned on YOU will be!
Talk dirty. This is a huge turn-on for most men. It is especially a turn-on if it is very different from the things you would usually say. If you are the prim and proper type, it is probably going to feel very uncomfortable in the beginning. However, when you see the effect it has on your man, it will get easier. Start slowly. Practice saying the words to yourself. Talking dirty can mean different things. It can be as simple as telling him what feels good to telling him to do it harder. The more naughty words you throw in, the better.
Tell him what you want. Men are not mind readers. As much as you think he should probably know just the right places to touch, the fact is that he doesn’t. Besides, all women are different. What sends one woman into heaven may irritate another. A man appreciates it when you tell him what you like. It is a huge turn-on when you tell him what you want him to do to you.
Show him what you like. This is very difficult for some women to do, but a man loves to see a woman touching her own body. There is something very sensual, sexy, and erotic about it. Some men love to watch a woman masturbate to orgasm. Lightly touch yourself when you and your man are in the throes of passion. If you see him lay back and start to watch, then you will know this is something he would enjoy. Go for it! It will show him a lot about how to please you himself.
Get kinky. For a new twist in your lovemaking, throw in a blindfold or let him tie you to the bedpost. It will be a huge turn-on for him to know that you trust him enough to give up control in that way. Or perhaps he had rather be the one to wear the blindfold and be tied up. Either way, he is sure to be turned on. He may even get the urge to spank of be spanked….and guess what? You might just like it!
Dress naughty. That old saying that a man likes an “angel outside of the bedroom and a whore in the bedroom” is very close to the truth. Show him that there is more to you than the woman who carpools the kids to and from school each day. Show him that sexy vixen inside of you. Put on something sexy. Throw on some thigh highs and heels. Put on a bit more make-up. Comb your hair a bit differently. It is a huge turn-on for a man to know that you went to that much trouble just for him. And if you’re afraid he’ll laugh at you, don’t be. Any man is going to love his woman doing this. If you hear a chuckle, I guarantee it will be a chuckle of delight.
These are just a few of the ways that you can drive your man crazy in bed. Use your imagination. Listen to what he wants. You will find that his enjoyment will become your enjoyment as well.
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