And so the whiner says, “He loves me for me, although I changed everything about me for him!” What on earth? Yeah…. This is the ultimate mistake anyone can do. Whiner number 2 says, “I’m the luckiest person in the planet, however, I’m not allowed to have a mind of my own!” Yeah…. Congratulations, you are now his official doormat…yay!
He himself doesn’t even like who he is, so he will spend his time trying to change everything about you in order to fill in the gap within him. It’s never his fault that you’re not ‘perfect’ enough to make him happy, so you donate your soul to him?
Rule number 1: Most likely if he is unsatisfied with who you are, nip him in the bud. If he cannot respect your person he won’t respect the relationship.
Rule number 2: If your fashion style has been consistent and he believes you should dress like the women in the medieval times, run away, quickly. This just means he does not trust you. Remember, trust and communication is key to any relationship.
Rule number 3: If he tells you cannot hangout with your friends, ask him what jungle he was raised in. This is a sign that he is controlling, and nothing good comes from caging the ‘beast.’
Rule number 4: If he constantly needs a play-by-play tell him to check your Facebook status…. On a more serious note, this is a sign that he has been played in the past, most likely by an ex, which he should be over it by the time you enter his life intimately. If not, move-on, because clearly he hasn’t.