Today's topic is 3 types of women you shouldn't be dating. Read below, and let me know if there are any other "types" that should be included in this list:
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1. The Bitch. Yes, we know that men love bitches and even marry them! But for our context here, we mean the woman who is always so demanding, so unappreciative and so cruel! There are some women who have the mean thing down pat. It's part of their personality. And there are other women who have become that way because of bad experiences with other men. They think by being on the defensive all the time, they are protecting their hearts from being broken, which of course is untrue. If you are sincerely making an effort with the lady in your life, and she never has anything nice to say, is always complaining, disrespects you in public or in private often, and hasn't made a sincere effort to change, then it's time to reevaluate the relationship. I see too many wonderful men out there with women who bring them down in more ways than one! Ditch the bitch, and ask the happy, nice girl out! The girl who isn't always complaining and who doesn't always have that serious "mess with me or else" look on her face! If this is what turns you on, consider role play! But date nice women in real life (nice women can also be "bitchy" but as Sherry Argov's book Why Men Love Bitches points out, it's the kind of bitchiness that gets you turned on! Not off).
2. Princess Pretty Types. High maintenance is the word many of us use to describe the "princess" type girl who always has to have her iced mocha frappes with Splenda and a quarter teaspoon of whipped cream and if you get it to her five minutes later than expected, she will make you re-do her order! Now let me say, there is NOTHING wrong with getting things done how you like it, or living a life of luxury, or indulging in the good things in life. But when your girl is constantly scared to get her shoes wet in a puddle (a saying) then perhaps it's time to date another woman who has more of a balance in life. Sure, she can love wearing her $500 stilettos while hanging out at The Ritz for drinks, but perhaps she also enjoys going for a bike ride on weekends, or shopping at the local flea market looking for great deals! My point is, it's ok to be high maintenance and live a high, uppity life style or even aspire to. But it's also important to be down to earth and open to things that aren't necessarily conducive with the "princess" lifestyle. If your date is snobby, condescending or out of touch with reality, then let her go and find someone who can enjoy life sans the materialistic attitude. There is so much more to life than what you are wearing, what you can afford to buy and where you live! It's the experience of life that matters.
3. Jealous (to an extreme). Yes, it's a good thing when a girl exhibits a little playful jealousy at other women checking you out, or gets angry when you check other women out. But the point is, there is a limit to how much jealousy a person should show! If your girl is always getting jealous, cuts you off from every single female in your life (including your mother and best friends) then it's time to re-evaluate the relationship. This woman can make your life a living hell. If you've tried to reassure her and aren't doing anything on purpose to make her fly into a jealous rage, then consider dating another woman! Ladies, if you're reading this and you are always checking your man's phone, his email, his social media and anything else you can get your hands on, then take a step back and ask yourself if this jealously and suspicion is warranted (as in he has cheated before or you have some proof he is) or if it's your FEAR getting a hold of you! If it's your fear, then discipline yourself enough to stop acting in ways that sabotage your relationship with your boyfriend or husband! Extreme jealousy can drive your man away. Exercise caution, and give the man some space!
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