When many think of marriage they see a life filled with lots of stress and no sex. Marriage should bring out the best in you even in the bedroom. After three years sex in a marriage tends to take a back seat to the daily routine of life. The average American couple has sex less than three times a week. Take into consideration that there are 52 weeks in a year and that number is low. How can you have a sex filled marriage everyday? Here are some simple tips that you can do today that will put the spark back into your sexless marriage.
- Sexting - Send a sexy text a day for 30 days. Naughty text messages and pictures throughout the day to your spouse will make them anticipate sex with you. The mind is our biggest sex organ. Utilizing the imagination is a great way to implement foreplay no matter where you are.
- Sex outside the bedroom - You may need a new change of scenery to shake up your love life. A weekend trip to a nearby town or hotel can bring out your romantic side. Try having sex in another part of the house if you aren't able to take trips. If you want to be adventurous have sex outdoors.
- Take the lead - Is your sex one sided? Does your spouse initiate sex most of the time? Surprise them and you take the lead. If you want to be sexual with your partner don't wait for them to tell you they are ready. Most times your spouse wants you to show them that you find them sexually enticing. You have to put in the effort to see changes in your sex life.
A sex filled marriage doesn't happen overnight. You have to make a decisions and commitment to yourself and spouse that you want your sex life to be amazing. If you put these simple-free, and proven tips to work for 30 days you will see your sex increase and you will start to reconnect with your spouse like when you two first started dating.