15 reasons for a wife to be thankful if she has a faithful mate

15 reasons a wife can be thankful if she has a faithful
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This Thanksgiving, any wife with a faithful husband has a lot to be thankful for.

Infidelity statistics indicate that 3 out of every 4 men are cheating on their mates.

Faithful husbands are few and far between.
See the article entitled Be Thankful This Thanksgiving if You Have a Faithful Mate.

If you’re fortunate enough to be the 1 wife out of every 4 whose husband isn’t having an affair, you have at least 15 things to be thankful for.

15 Reasons for You to Be Thankful

1. Be thankful that your marriage and family are still intact.

2. Be thankful you that don’t have to fight over which parent your children will spend Thanksgiving with this year.

3. Be thankful your husband hasn't packed his bags and moved in with his mistress.

4. Be thankful your husband hasn’t surprised you with divorce papers out of the blue.

5. Be thankful you don’t have to go through a custody battle over your children.

6. Be thankful you don’t have to deal with the mental and emotional trauma that infidelity brings.

7. Be thankful you don’t have to sit home alone at night wondering where your husband is, or who he’s with.

8. Be thankful you haven’t contracted a sexually transmitted disease because your husband had unprotected sex with someone else.

9. Be thankful your husband hasn't emptied your joint bank account or used family funds to finance his extramarital affair.

10. Be thankful you don’t have to agonize over the difficult decision of whether or not to stay with a cheating mate.

11. Be thankful you don’t have to shell out money to a divorce attorney to help you bring your marriage to an end.

12. Be thankful you don’t have to persuade your husband that the two of you need to see a marriage counselor to get your marriage back on track.

13. Be thankful you’re not one of those 26 million unsuspecting wives who didn’t know her husband was having an affair.

14. Be thankful you’re not an object of pity among your family and friends because you were the last to know.

15. Be thankful the time and energy you’ve invested in your marriage have not been in vain.

Not Sure Your Husband is One of the Faithful Few?

If you’re not quite sure whether or not your husband is among the 3 out of 4 men cheating on their wives, then be thankful you read this article. There’s a relatively easy way for you to find out. Request a free copy of the special report entitled Is He Cheating? Is She Cheating? - 21 Ways You Can Tell, by e-mailing InfidelityInfo@gmail.com with “21 ways -Xm in the subject line.

You’ll be thankful you did.

*** © copyright 2009 Ruth Houston

Ruth Houston is a New York-based infidelity expert who is frequently called on by the media to comment on infidelity issues in the news. She is the author of Is He Cheating on You? - 829 Telltale Signs, the founder of InfidelityAdvice.com and publishes the Infidelity News and Views blog at http://infidelitynewsandviews.blogspot.com/ .

For more information about infidelity, cheating husbands or extramarital affairs, see:

Be Thankful This Thanksgiving if You Have a Faithful Mate

Is He Cheating? Is She Cheating? - 21 Ways You Can Tell (free infidelity report)

What Should I Do If I Think He or She is Cheating on Me?

3 Things a Wife Stands to Lose by Being the Last to Know

How Do You Catch a Cheating Husband?

Is He Cheating on You? – 829 Telltale Signs (book)

Why the wife is still the last to know

How Wives with Cheating Husbands Can Gain the Upper Hand (free tip sheet)

13 Things Everyone Should Know About Signs of Infidelity 

Free Infidelity Tip Sheets and Special Reports

Infidelity Resources to Help You Catch a Cheating Mate