In the United States women file two-thirds of the time for divorce. Many men are shocked when presented with divorce papers. As the process server shows up they often think it is some other civil suit or ignored parking tickets. Some are in such shock that they end up with drunken driving charges from the stressful event. The anger is doused by alcohol from the complete betrayal by their significant other.
Women who have been threatened by their husband are more likely to file without your knowledge. If you create a fear based relationship with unconditional love then she will file guilt free. Next, if you spend more time criticizing her then appreciating her you might have a battle to face.
In addition, men who belittle their wife will turn a submissive wife into a full fledged cage fighter. There is something very liberating about turning 40 and never wanting to be put down again. It is like a different spirit has now entered her body.
Why do so many men miss out on all the red flags presented to them? Please see some common red flags below:
1) She gets all her emotional needs met from her friends since you rarely talk to her.
2) She now takes separate vacations with her girlfriends.
3) She is getting plastic surgery and you will be paying for it for her new boyfriend.
4) She has her cell phone locked down with a security code.
5) She visits her mother or sister more often than usual.
6) She goes outside to talk on the phone.
7) She seems happier and more hopeful than usual.
8) She is hanging out with girlfriends who are unhappily married.
9) She has asked you in the last two years or so to attend marriage counseling.
10) Your financial paperwork seems out of order in your office since she is copying it.
11) Yelling is your method of communication.
12) You treat her like an office employee .
13) She stopped nagging you about your sex life.