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Entering his fourth year as chairman of Fairfax County’s Board of Supervisors, the blustery, Irish Catholic Democrat drives headlines in ways others local politicians can only dream of. Of the 10 members on the board, his face is the most ubiquitous, his voice the loudest, his words the most quoted. If any one man represents metropolitan Northern Virginia to the rest of the predominately conservative, rural state, it’s Gerry Connolly.
Even inside of his Mantua home, he doesn’t completely cast off the identity of an elected official. As the conversation turns to policy and politics, he slips easily back into the impassioned, assertive manner that marks his public persona. But the 56-year-old chairman is also equal parts husband and father, a Boston-raised former seminarian who married a former nun from rural Pennsylvania. Her name is Cathy. He, affectionately, calls her Smitty.
Both had crossed into the Old Dominion by the time they met.
“Cathy had already left the convent, and I had left the seminary,” he remembers. “And we met here while we were both working for a nonprofit organization back in 1972, right after Nixon was re-elected.”
Their daughter, 15-year-old Caitlin Rose, is a public high school sophomore involved in chorus, ice skating and — along with her father and mother — theater. She seems untroubled by her surname filling the headlines so often, though she does, at times, hear about it at school.
“People usually don’t bring it up,” Caitlin Rose said. “But sometimes, people will say, ‘Hey, isn’t your dad the governor?’ ”
It’s not a far stretch politically; Connolly diverges from Virginia Gov. Tim Kaine’s policy decisions only rarely. But the silver-haired chairman, bespectacled and mustachioed, bears little to no resemblance to his ally Kaine.
Nor does he reside in a mansion; his blue two-story home sits on a quiet residential road not far east of Fairfax City. The structure is backed by a stretch of the winding cross-county trail, a 40-mile walking trail that runs to the northern and southern ends of the county.
The interior is adorned with artwork from far-off locales, appropriate for a man who once traveled the world as a senior policy adviser for the U.S. Senate Foreign Relations Committee. In 10 years working on Capitol Hill, he’s traveled to 76 countries.
During the holidays, their living room was anchored by an expansive and well-adorned Christmas tree. The mantle was guarded by a phalanx of nutcrackers. The three share the house with two cats, a dog and a parrot named John Adams that might be only the living thing more outspoken than the chairman himself.
Outside, there is little to indicate that the house is occupied by one of Northern Virginia’s most powerful men, other than the Connolly campaign bumper sticker on the back of a parked van.
Connolly, by any standard, is a monumentally busy man. Being the prime elected leader in a county with a population that exceeds that of seven states is not a full-time job; he spends about 30 hours a week as director of community relations for tech firm SAIC, one of the largest employers in the county.
He said he spends about twice that time each week on the affairs of county government. Cathy is marketing director for the Fairfax Symphony Orchestra.
His wife and daughter join him on the road for community events on weekends, which Cathy said nets them quality time together in the car. Unlike his nine counterparts, the chairman is elected at-large, which means his district encompasses all 395 square miles of Fairfax County. And spread throughout that suburban land mass are the 500 community events he estimates he attends each year.
That equation adds up to a lot of driving, with no county-issued car.
“Another reason we try to spend time doing that with Gerry [is] we get involved, to know what he has to go through on a daily basis, to make it part of our lives,” Cathy said
The chairman added: “It is a family enterprise, and I wouldn’t do it if it weren’t, frankly, if Cathy and Caitlin weren’t supportive.”
Both double as campaign boosters, too. Connolly plans to run again for chairman this year and is widely rumored to have larger political aspirations.
It’s been a long road thus far. Connolly took his first step into elected politics in the Mantua Citizens Association, heading the group when a nearby tank farm began leaking fuel fumes into the neighborhood.
He then leapt to president of the Fairfax County Federation of Citizens Associations.
His opening on the Board of Supervisors came in 1995, when he ran to fill the Providence District spot being vacated by Kate Hanley, who ascended to the chairmanship. At the time, Caitlin Rose was very young.
“For her, it was an interesting experience,” recalls Cathy. “Caitlin at the time was not quite 4 years old. She didn’t quite get the fact that it was a competition, that daddy would run but he might not win. She was distressed to discover he had an opponent.”
To put his daughter at ease, he took her to meet his first (and second) challenger: Jeannemarie Devolites. She is now state Sen. Jeannemarie Devolites-Davis, married to U.S. Rep. Tom Davis. In 1999, he ran unopposed.
When Hanley, now secretary of the commonwealth, decided not to run again in 2003, Connolly again stepped into her footprint. Since then, his profile has grown enormously.
“For me, it doesn’t mean an awful lot, except that I tend to accumulate newspapers,” his wife said of his local fame. “It’s a nice connection for people to be able to speak to you personally about someone who might otherwise be distant.”
And as he prepares for another high-profile battle for the right to lead Virginia’s largest county government, the chairman and his wife are tending to a far more serious matter: teaching their daughter to drive — a stick shift. “So few kids these days,” he laments.
He and Cathy just celebrated their 30th wedding anniversary. Both remain connected to their religion, though no longer as a career choice.
“The values, I think, the Catholic values we were imbued with stay with us,” he said.
“There is not a day I don’t get up and think about those values. There is a lot of religious motivation, I don’t mean in terms of proselytizing. ... There is a pastoral aspect that is very important to me.”
Before he was chairman ...
» Gerry Connolly joined the staff of the U.S. Senate Foreign Relations Committee after receiving his master’s in public administration from Harvard University in 1979. While on the committee, he traveled to 76 countries and specialized in the Middle East and foreign assistance, he said.
» Ten years later, he joined SRI International as vice president of the firm’s Washington office, where he directed relations with top federal officials. He became SAIC’s director for community relations in 2002.
About the county
» Fairfax County has a population that tops 1 million residents, making it the most populous jurisdiction in the D.C. Metro region. By 2020, population is expected to reach almost 1.2 million residents. The county contains about 400,000 housing units.
» The county boasts the second-highest median household income in the country at $94,600, behind its neighbor Loudoun. According to the U.S. Census Bureau’s 2004 American Community Survey, more than half the county’s residents work within its borders.



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Examiner Reader said:
Thanks for this long but thorough and informative article about the Korean community in the area. Asian Americans tend to be under-covered in the mainstream media, so it's nice to see the Examiner spend some time putting Koreans in the spotlight.
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Examiner Reader said:
The workers their shouldn't be able to take what they want out of your car either. Why is the city not responsible for items lost while in there possession?
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the only one really seeing?? said:
How about the police going after the pimps and johns who are oppressing these women!! They are women before being labeled as prostitutes, and human beings above all!! I can't believe people; legalize prostitution?? Make this even easier for pimps and johns to continue to demoralize, abuse, torture, rape, and kill the women of OUR society?? These are our sisters, our daughters, our mothers;they're not aliens. Change the thought process and use the precious tax dollars for programs such as transitional housing and rehabilitation for the WOMEN, John schools for the 'johns', and harsher punnishments for the pimps. And please stop using the word PIMP in everyday language and descriptions! Do you know what a pimp does? Restructure the police force and actually "train" them on the realities of this IMMENSE wrong-doing of humanity in order to allow for correct policing. Help these women who are the victims of this vicious cycle! Break the cycle!! Address the actual problem, and OPEN YOUR E
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Am I alone on this how many agree that REv Wright need to go back into the hole he was in before the primary elections and not give the impression that he is here to represent the Blacks of America and the Black Church of America. His views are only for him and the 500 people that attend his church. He is hurting everything that we have worked toward in the last 40+ years to be seen/heard and appreciated as part of the American dream. You are hurting US can you just be quiet. Concerned.
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Examiner Reader said:
What does it mean when my boyfriend tells me that we fight every weekend (which I don't keep tabs on but we've been together since 11/07 till now, 4/08 and we've broken up seven times), and he only wants me for the week and to keep his weekends "open"??!
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Examiner Reader said:
Connolly is a typical irish catholic democrat who immigrated from Caambridge Massachusetts.He sells the typical Bostn irsh rethoric like the Kennedy's. We can all be persuaaded without thinking of what he is selling to the citizens of Fairfax County????
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Examiner Reader said:
I suppose Howard County Sheriff have nothing better to do than raid alleged prostitutes. The woman that reported her should feel awful. I wonder if she divorced her husband. I doubt it. I would also bet she thinks everything is ok now and her husband hasn't found someone else.
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Examiner Reader said:
YOU say we must trust Dixon, how can we trust her when she does things like having her sister in her campagne which I know you will say is legal, I would think that with the very suggestion of having her sister have any part in the city gov is a mockery to all honest people of Baltimore, is dixon still being investigate for her so called lack of memory on the company's that got city work that should have been bid on. Or are the dem going to just push lthis under the rug. John
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Examiner Reader said:
It's a very good article to understand Korean-American in this region.
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Mr. Mirth Alert said:
The question is not whether the NAACP is relevant to young African Americans but whether it's relevant @all; however, as most natl. orgs. & institutions know, relevance varies among local chapters. If one can argue whether the natl. NAACP is relevant, Doc Cheatham ensures that there's no question about the Balto. chapter. He seems to've struck a fine balance betw. charismatic leader & entrenched worker, a balance lost in the likes of Jesse Jackson, Al Sharpton, & too many "natl." characters.
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Examiner Reader said:
Is the NAACP still relevant in the lives of young African Americans?
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It is senseless that someone who has been successfully teaching in any subject area for several years has to succomb to NCLB. As a Special Educator it is unrealistic for President Bush or anyone else to believe that all of our special ed students will meet the grade. It simply is not true! I am an older adult and career changer who decided to become a part of the Special Education mission in Maryland. I have not received help with my education or quest to become "highly qualified" as a Special Educator. I hold a MAT, in the past I have been teaching, going to school at night, trying to meet the many demands of my principal, and attempting to muddle through the mounds of paper work that is involved in teaching. I just recently graduated. Shouldn't there be a window of time for me to study and prepare for Praxis exams before being terminated? Why should career changers who have had to return to school to meet the educational requirements feet be held to the same fire?
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Examiner Reader said:
Thats precisely why I'll do the minimum time fiishing my career after the BRAC and then will retire and move on to my next career. I dont deal with long commutes now and it wont become a way of life.
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Examiner Reader said:
Other than new constuction, baltimore water treatment operators make $10-$15,000 less than the operators surrounding the stae of maryland
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Examiner Reader said:
As long as there are restrictions on firearms which denies everyone in Maryland the right to self defense there will be murders. People in Maryland should be fed up with the Mayor's nonsense. More guns-less crime.
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Examiner Reader said:
My hearts goes to the parents who lost their love ones. Where I reside at my neighbor has not been out the house since her grandson was murdered and burn. It a shame that our culture is divided, we are the only one. Frank COnway stated it to a golden rule. No more do unto others before it is done unto you. From the Policitians, local officials cut out many resources which may have helped our young children out. All they were concern about was the Inner Harbor which took all of Public school money Ck it out we don't have books. Half of these joung adult can not read or write. It's terrible. Today a police officer killed a young man in the rear of 27 hundrend blk of North ave. U can bet they will paint the picture of him being a terrible young man. In my neighborhood along we had 5-6 killings none solved. The dirt bikes slow ride them you are bound to catch. U cell them, they buy them, everything is made out of this city or country we buy. Corner stor ckic wings, ffs, subs etc
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Examiner Reader said:
I understand that they don't know what to do about dirt bikes in city. If they see these people riding in a certain area dress a cop up in there clothes have him ride with them follow them back to where they gather an arrest them.
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Penny Baltimore said:
I read this article and I could feel these Parents pain. I have a similar pain! My son was shot on August 31,2006 which left his paralazed from his neck down as well as blind from the bullet that severed his spinal cord. I feel the pain of those parents because of the fact their children were killed! I get the joy and pleasure of watching my son every day struggle with being cleaned and changed. I get to watch MY son being feed threw a tube and I even get the chance to watch him CRY. I used to say that if he had died the police would have locked up the monster that did this, but, now I no that would never happen, even though they no who did it. I AM SO ANGRY AT WHAT IS HAPPENING TO GOOD KIDS AS WELL AS " BAD KIDS". I pray and wish for miracle for my son and the others SONS that are murdered, jailed or just left to perish by senseless acts of violence. Thanks for letting my let it out!
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Karl Chue said:
Where is the "innovation"? Why will people come forward when they know that criminals will simply be back on the street in a few hours, days, or months AND will know exactly who "snitched"? Why will "youths" turn away from the drug trade when is it the only financially lucrative path they see? How will getting illegal guns off the street make any difference when these thugs are perfectly happy to stab & bludgeon innocent people? If Dixon where really going to make a difference, she'd propose that all seized drugs be given away free to junkies. If junkies can get their fix for free, it would cripple the drug trade financially (which is the only reason it exists). Of course, that would lead to even more poverty in some areas of the city, but that is a better problem to have than thugs running free.
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Examiner Reader said:
Mayor Dixon has all the best intentions in the world, however Baltimore City does not need another weak save the children program. The youth have already proven they are unwilling to listen. What the the youth of baltimore understand now is violence, which is clearly reflected in the surge of gang violence. If Baltimore is to survive, it's time to stop dancing for the public and get dirty. Mayor Dixon needs to no longer spare the rod and release the unchained fury of the Baltimore police department to take back the City. The number of homicides would fall by hundreds if police were allowed to police. Sometimes a strong hand is best for reproving, not the sit down can we discuss your problem.
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Karl Chue said:
The National Academy of Sciences and the Centers for Disease Control under the Clinton Administration studied 20 YEARS of scientific literature, research studies/ reports and academic books written on gun control laws. Their conclusion, based completely on FACT, not conjecture was that gun control laws could not be shown to have any affect on crime rates. As for "More guns not reducing violence": Switzerland has the highest rate of gun ownership in the world with 75% of people owning them, including a fully automatic military rifle plus 300 rounds of ammunition in every home. Their violent crime rates is equivalent to Japan's where private gun ownership does not exist. We don't punish criminal behavior in this country and thus reap what we sow.
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King said:
Karl Chue needs to go back to school and base his comments on reality, not RNC talking points. Fact: More guns do not reduce violence, EVER.
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Karl Chue said:
This is completely logical given the lack of resolve in crime fighting from the City Council. They can't jail felons for long periods, they won't execute repeat violent offenders, they won't let officers chase reckless suspects, they won't let people defend themselves with firearms (i.e. carry permits), etc. This is the logical result of 60 years of coddling criminals.
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Examiner Reader said:
Why do children have to kill children in Baltimore?
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