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BALTIMORE (Map, News) - The sad story of Kevin Hart should send a message to athletes, parents and coaches everywhere.
Hart is the offensive lineman out of Fernley, Nev., who made up the story about his recruitment and signing with the University of California at Berkeley. Not long after a well-attended press conference at his school, his story began to unravel. Cal Coach Jeff Tedford had never recruited Hart. Coaches at Oregon and other schools that Hart claimed were interested had not pursued him, either.
After briefly claiming to have duped by a recruiting con artist, Hart acknowledged the lie. He said when his dreams of playing college football failed to materialize, “I made up what I wanted to be reality.”
On the surface, Hart’s tale raises common sense issues: Did this kid think he could fill a gym with classmates and cameras and not have the story reach the coaches at Cal? Has he not heard of the Internet? Did his high school coach wonder why no one from these schools contacted the school? Did the coach himself ever call these colleges to talk up his 6-foot-5, 290-pound star? Did Hart’s family wonder why no coach showed up in the living room or phoned to offer information on scholarships? Did anyone, anyone, ever consider there might be some details to accepting a college offer — like providing a transcript or SAT score or registering with the NCAA Clearinghouse?
Some answers to these questions may eventually surface, but the folks involved haven’t scheduled any more media conferences.
This story raises far deeper issues than whether young Hart really thought his story would hold up. It’s a tale that athletes and those who care about them should heed.
Hart dreamed of playing college sports and came to believe he could do so. He’s not the first kid who overestimated his skills, and he’s not the first person who lied about an athletic achievement.
What he learned is there are no small lies; they all catch up. And that’s what players and their supporters need to take from this.
Almost every day, I read some college player profile that includes accolades I know to be exaggerated. Some “four-year starters” began a single, meaningless game as a freshman when the older players were being rested. Some list all-district or all-met honors for players who made the “also noted” lists or none at all. Some profiles list awards that are given to every player in the school. Some list varsity letters in secondary sports on which the player never even made varsity. Most of these fibs — no, let’s call them what they are: lies — don’t end up as national news. They are part of that “resume enhancement” plan which players, parents and coaches embrace.
After all, there is an assumption that college coaches make decisions based on watching the player, talking to trusted advisors and reading hard statistics. And if they were swayed by a padded resume, well shame on them for taking it seriously. So generally kids get away with this.
Hart’s story shows just what can happen when the little lies catch up. Now, he took a dive into pretty deep water with a football program such as Cal. But with all the sports talk on the Internet, even the non-revenue, non-scholarship college programs are going to come under greater scrutiny. There aren’t any little lies anymore.
The other lesson learned in that small town in Nevada is that parents who think their children are good enough must understand that they cannot do it alone. Few 17-year-olds can navigate the complex system of college recruiting without help. Players need to understand the system to have any chance. They need guidance from someone willing to support them whatever the outcome. And when those dreams don’t come true, they need kindness and compassion. They will all stop playing some day — it is just a question of when.
Effie Dawson writes about high school and youth sports. She can be reached at edawson@baltimoreexaminer.com.



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Examiner Reader said:
Thank you for a wonderful article and capturing the spirit of an equine sport we love. Vicki Betts, President, Maryland Jousting Tournament Association
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Examiner Reader said:
Effie- What fun to read- What a great Maryland tradition that is being kept alive-Thanks this was fun to read.
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Attila the Hon said:
Please disregard the previous comment. He didn't even explain himself. Pretty gutless, I think. It's great to see a Baltimore-area newspaper columnist finally show some love for Crystal Palace Baltimore. I always look forward to the Examiner's refreshing coverage of this very highly deserving team. Puts to shame The Sun which almost always ignores Palace and deserves its declining readership. Keep up the good work. GO PALACE! UPSET NEW ENGLAND!
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Examiner Reader said:
Worst. Column. Ever.
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The Undertaker said:
People in this country are too fat, lazy, and stupid.
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Examiner Reader said:
"These days Maryland kids often get their first sticks before their first tricycles. College coaches flock to the state for showcase camps and recruiting tournaments. And lacrosse has deep roots in the business and political communities, where former players maintain connections far stronger than academic degrees." Laugh out loud. This is a paragraph supporting lacrosse? In truth it is an indictment of all that is wrong with the sport. Kids SHOULD get trikes before sticks. Most lacrosse families consist of semi-talented white athletes (who couldn't compete in other sports) pushed hard by parents who live vicariously through them, and hope to achieve greater social status through their "Excellent play". So sad.
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Examiner Reader said:
Please don't say the l word around baseball people.
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Examiner Reader said:
This Annapolis woman, who has taken Rafael Alvarez spot on page six is BORING. BRING BACK ALVAREZ, he is from Baltimroe, where we who live in BALTIMORE can read about our town.
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Examiner Reader said:
Bravo! I totally agree! With a daughter on the John Carroll team, I know they'd welcome a game to determine the mythical "champion"! What a blast that would be.
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A Mother of Boys said:
Thank you for your insights on the life lessons for this young man. He has carved a hard road for himself, and forced the grown ups around him (parents, coaches, authorities) to make hard choices about his future. We, like you, are praying that he gets a second chance, and makes the most of it. That's another life lesson.
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examiner reader said:
This guy should be hillary's running mate
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Not...paying attention said:
The writer actually points out the fact that children know the score and are competative. She is correctly trying to make the point that youth sports should be about learning the fundamentals of the game and sportsmanship. For young children, the experience should be FUN. Winning is much less important to most 6-7 year olds than their parents. Most children would much rather play in the game than watch their "team" win. Children who enjoy the experience will be much more likely to develop a passion for the sport and a commitment to self development. This provides a much stronger mental foundation for the player when they hit High School and College when sports are rightly focused on winning and losing. It is a shame that children no longer experience the sand lot version of sports where parents are no where to be found. Yes, we kept score but it was forgotten as soon as we started the next game. We played because it was FUN!
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Not said:
"But those wonderful first years of athletic participation are not the time to teach kids that sports are all about winning." They do not have to be taught this. Kids keep score on everything competitive and naturally seek to win. This mamby-pamby false protectiveness of children is precisely the kind of crud that is counter intuitive for chidren.
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Don said:
I'm glad I am done with all of that sports stuff, and competition dance is even worse....been there, seen it done it. Its no small wonder why older people have grey hair.
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