<?xml version="1.0" encoding="utf-8"?>
			<?xml-stylesheet type="text/xsl" href="/css/rss2.xsl"?>

			<rss version="2.0">
			<channel>
			<title>Relationship Examiner</title>
			<link>http://www.examiner.com/x-538-Relationship-Examiner?cid=exrss-Relationship-Examiner</link>
			<description></description>
			<language>en-us</language>
			<pubDate>Wed, 30 Dec 2009 13:11:00 -0700</pubDate>
			<lastBuildDate>Sun, 13 Dec 2009 10:39:49 -0700</lastBuildDate>
			<generator>BlogCFC</generator>
			<docs>http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss</docs>
			<managingEditor></managingEditor>
			<webMaster></webMaster>
			
			
			
			
			
			
			<item>
				<title>The message of Charles Dickens&apos;   &apos;A Christmas Carol&quot;</title>				
				<link>http://www.examiner.com/x-538-Relationship-Examiner~y2009m12d13-The-message-of-Charles-Dickens-A-Christmas-Carol?cid=exrss-Relationship-Examiner</link>
				<description>
				
				
				photo credit:awilliamhoppThe message of &amp;ldquo;A Christmas Carol&amp;rdquo; is a beautiful one for all religions and beliefs.&amp;nbsp;The presents have all been wrapped and you&amp;rsquo;re looking for some type of relaxation. This week before Christmas give yo...
				
				
				</description>
				
				<category>couples</category>
				
				<category>Christmas</category>
				
				<category>Kristen Houghton</category>
				
				<pubDate>Sun, 13 Dec 2009 10:39:49 -0700</pubDate>
				<guid>http://www.examiner.com/x-538-Relationship-Examiner~y2009m12d13-The-message-of-Charles-Dickens-A-Christmas-Carol?cid=exrss-Relationship-Examiner</guid>
				
			</item>
			
		 	
			
			
			
			<item>
				<title>Sarah Palin, Tiger Woods, Sisters of Mercy all on Santa&apos;s naughty list</title>				
				<link>http://www.examiner.com/x-538-Relationship-Examiner~y2009m12d10-Sarah-Palin-Tiger-Woods-Sisters-of-Mercy-all-on-Santas-naughty-list?cid=exrss-Relationship-Examiner</link>
				<description>
				
				
				Let&amp;rsquo;s play nice kiddies, the holidays are coming! However there are some &amp;lsquo;children&amp;rsquo; who, it seems, won&amp;rsquo;t play nice even if asked nicely. Naughty kids! &amp;nbsp;Watch out - Santa&apos;s got his naughty list ready, so be prepared.&amp;nbsp;...
				
				
				</description>
				
				<category>Sarah Palin</category>
				
				<category>Christmas</category>
				
				<category>Tiger Woods</category>
				
				<pubDate>Thu, 10 Dec 2009 17:38:53 -0700</pubDate>
				<guid>http://www.examiner.com/x-538-Relationship-Examiner~y2009m12d10-Sarah-Palin-Tiger-Woods-Sisters-of-Mercy-all-on-Santas-naughty-list?cid=exrss-Relationship-Examiner</guid>
				
			</item>
			
		 	
			
			
			
			<item>
				<title>The Gift of the Magi is time</title>				
				<link>http://www.examiner.com/x-538-Relationship-Examiner~y2009m12d9-The-Gift-of-the-Magi-is-time?cid=exrss-Relationship-Examiner</link>
				<description>
				
				
				credit: Candlewick Press; illustration P.J.Lynch&amp;nbsp;Whatever holiday you celebrate you know that time is a precious commodity. There never seems to be enough of it. Too many things seem to devour it. Working, household chores, children, parents, pe...
				
				
				</description>
				
				<category>holidays</category>
				
				<category>Kristen Houghton</category>
				
				<category>gift of time</category>
				
				<pubDate>Wed, 09 Dec 2009 15:17:16 -0700</pubDate>
				<guid>http://www.examiner.com/x-538-Relationship-Examiner~y2009m12d9-The-Gift-of-the-Magi-is-time?cid=exrss-Relationship-Examiner</guid>
				
			</item>
			
		 	
			
			
			
			<item>
				<title>Alone at home for the holidays? Plan a vacation!</title>				
				<link>http://www.examiner.com/x-538-Relationship-Examiner~y2009m12d7-Alone-at-home-for-the-holidays-Plan-a-vacation?cid=exrss-Relationship-Examiner</link>
				<description>
				
				
				&amp;nbsp;Holidays should be like commercials. They abound with happy people. From loving couples holding hands while walking in the snow to smiling families all gathered around a dinner table or seated in front of a beautifully decorated tree, commercia...
				
				
				</description>
				
				<category>Kristen Houghton</category>
				
				<category>holidays alone</category>
				
				<category>holiday vacation</category>
				
				<pubDate>Mon, 07 Dec 2009 17:18:20 -0700</pubDate>
				<guid>http://www.examiner.com/x-538-Relationship-Examiner~y2009m12d7-Alone-at-home-for-the-holidays-Plan-a-vacation?cid=exrss-Relationship-Examiner</guid>
				
			</item>
			
		 	
			
			
			
			<item>
				<title>Create your own holiday traditions</title>				
				<link>http://www.examiner.com/x-538-Relationship-Examiner~y2009m12d6-Create-your-own-holiday-traditions?cid=exrss-Relationship-Examiner</link>
				<description>
				
				
				photo&amp;nbsp;credit: zionjudaica.comA friend of mine was concerned about the upcoming holiday season. Recently married to a man with two young children, she and her husband were at a loss as what to do about traditions. &amp;ldquo;The kids have been wonder...
				
				
				</description>
				
				<category>couples</category>
				
				<category>holidays</category>
				
				<category>chanukah</category>
				
				<category>Menorah</category>
				
				<pubDate>Sun, 06 Dec 2009 16:19:38 -0700</pubDate>
				<guid>http://www.examiner.com/x-538-Relationship-Examiner~y2009m12d6-Create-your-own-holiday-traditions?cid=exrss-Relationship-Examiner</guid>
				
			</item>
			
		 	
			
			
			
			<item>
				<title>Fifteen minutes of fame wanted or not - Levi, Sarah, Rielle, Jaimee, and Rachel</title>				
				<link>http://www.examiner.com/x-538-Relationship-Examiner~y2009m12d2-Fifteen-minutes-of-fame-wanted-or-not--Levi-Sarah-Rielle-Jaimee-and-Rachel?cid=exrss-Relationship-Examiner</link>
				<description>
				
				
				courtesy msnbc.com&amp;nbsp;2009 will go down as the year of a special club called The Fifteen-Minute-of-Famers. From Levi Johnston to his erstwhile non mother-in-law Sarah Palin to the party-crashing Salahis, all the way to &amp;ldquo;the other women;&amp;rdquo...
				
				
				</description>
				
				<category>Rachel Uchitel</category>
				
				<category>Jaimee Grubbs</category>
				
				<category>Tiger Woods</category>
				
				<category>cheats</category>
				
				<pubDate>Wed, 02 Dec 2009 15:27:28 -0700</pubDate>
				<guid>http://www.examiner.com/x-538-Relationship-Examiner~y2009m12d2-Fifteen-minutes-of-fame-wanted-or-not--Levi-Sarah-Rielle-Jaimee-and-Rachel?cid=exrss-Relationship-Examiner</guid>
				
			</item>
			
		 	
			
			
			
			<item>
				<title>New holiday theme-no children after six pm</title>				
				<link>http://www.examiner.com/x-538-Relationship-Examiner~y2009m11d30-New-holiday-themeno-children-after-six-pm?cid=exrss-Relationship-Examiner</link>
				<description>
				
				
				&amp;nbsp;Holiday time means family and family inevitably means children. Whether you have your own or whether you are the favorite aunty or uncle of other people&amp;rsquo;s children, you are bound to see them over the holidays. You love them and want to se...
				
				
				</description>
				
				<category>relationships</category>
				
				<category>Christmas</category>
				
				<category>no children</category>
				
				<pubDate>Mon, 30 Nov 2009 17:11:06 -0700</pubDate>
				<guid>http://www.examiner.com/x-538-Relationship-Examiner~y2009m11d30-New-holiday-themeno-children-after-six-pm?cid=exrss-Relationship-Examiner</guid>
				
			</item>
			
		 	
			
			
			
			<item>
				<title>It&#39;s Your Turn to Write the Holiday Cards This Year!-</title>				
				<link>http://www.examiner.com/x-538-Relationship-Examiner~y2009m11d29-Its-Your-Turn-to-Write-the-Holiday-Cards-This-Year?cid=exrss-Relationship-Examiner</link>
				<description>
				
				
				We&amp;rsquo;re going along pretty well two weeks before Christmas. Most presents have been bought, the house is decorated. We even scaled back the enormous outdoor display we do every year and settled for simplicity in a lighted large, fresh wreath, rei...
				
				
				</description>
				
				<category>couples</category>
				
				<category>Christmas</category>
				
				<category>Kristen Houghton</category>
				
				<pubDate>Sun, 29 Nov 2009 15:27:58 -0700</pubDate>
				<guid>http://www.examiner.com/x-538-Relationship-Examiner~y2009m11d29-Its-Your-Turn-to-Write-the-Holiday-Cards-This-Year?cid=exrss-Relationship-Examiner</guid>
				
			</item>
			
		 	
			
			
			
			<item>
				<title>Selective hearing in relationships - Everything&apos;s Personal, Nothing&apos;s Sacred</title>				
				<link>http://www.examiner.com/x-538-Relationship-Examiner~y2009m11d27-Slective-hearing-in-relationships--Everythings-Personal-Nothings-Sacred?cid=exrss-Relationship-Examiner</link>
				<description>
				
				
				It should come as no surprise that, while husbands and wives technically speak the same language, science has said that, in reality, they are speaking two &amp;nbsp;totally different versions. Having done expensive, exhaustive studies on the subject, the...
				
				
				</description>
				
				<category>couples</category>
				
				<category>Kristen Houghton</category>
				
				<category>hearing</category>
				
				<category>Everything&apos;s Personal...</category>
				
				<category>communication</category>
				
				<pubDate>Fri, 27 Nov 2009 08:10:00 -0700</pubDate>
				<guid>http://www.examiner.com/x-538-Relationship-Examiner~y2009m11d27-Slective-hearing-in-relationships--Everythings-Personal-Nothings-Sacred?cid=exrss-Relationship-Examiner</guid>
				
			</item>
			
		 	
			
			
			
			<item>
				<title>A Thanksgiving poem (with deepest apologies to Clement Moore)!</title>				
				<link>http://www.examiner.com/x-538-Relationship-Examiner~y2009m11d25-A-Thanksgiving-poem-with-deepest-apologies-to-Clement-Moore?cid=exrss-Relationship-Examiner</link>
				<description>
				
				
				photo&amp;nbsp;credit:schulzmuseum.org&amp;lsquo;Twas the Morn of Thanksgiving, exactly at eight,When I went down the stairs, just barely awake,&amp;nbsp;I needed some coffee, caffeine, just a cup,To get myself going, to wake myself up! &amp;nbsp;My husband was dres...
				
				
				</description>
				
				<category>love</category>
				
				<category>Thanksgiving</category>
				
				<category>humor</category>
				
				<category>Kristen Houghton</category>
				
				<pubDate>Wed, 25 Nov 2009 15:34:31 -0700</pubDate>
				<guid>http://www.examiner.com/x-538-Relationship-Examiner~y2009m11d25-A-Thanksgiving-poem-with-deepest-apologies-to-Clement-Moore?cid=exrss-Relationship-Examiner</guid>
				
			</item>
			
		 	
			
			
			
			<item>
				<title>The Thanksgiving marriage miracle</title>				
				<link>http://www.examiner.com/x-538-Relationship-Examiner~y2009m11d23-The-Thanksgiving-marriage-miracle?cid=exrss-Relationship-Examiner</link>
				<description>
				
				
				photo&amp;nbsp;credit:visualphoto&amp;ldquo;That married couples can live together day after day is a miracle that the Vatican has overlooked.&amp;rdquo;&amp;nbsp; Bill CosbyMarriage is a miracle even when we don&amp;rsquo;t see it as such. It endures a lot. Anyone who ...
				
				
				</description>
				
				<category>couples</category>
				
				<category>love</category>
				
				<category>Thanksgiving</category>
				
				<category>Kristen Houghton</category>
				
				<pubDate>Mon, 23 Nov 2009 15:33:52 -0700</pubDate>
				<guid>http://www.examiner.com/x-538-Relationship-Examiner~y2009m11d23-The-Thanksgiving-marriage-miracle?cid=exrss-Relationship-Examiner</guid>
				
			</item>
			
		 	
			
			
			
			<item>
				<title>What not to discuss on Thanksgiving?  here&apos;s a list!</title>				
				<link>http://www.examiner.com/x-538-Relationship-Examiner~y2009m11d22-What-not-to-discuss-on-Thanksgiving--heres-a-list?cid=exrss-Relationship-Examiner</link>
				<description>
				
				
				&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; photo&amp;nbsp;credit: igourmet.comAh, the holiday season! Holiday Specials on TV make our sentiments abound and we find ourselves be...
				
				
				</description>
				
				<category>Thanksgiving</category>
				
				<category>Kristen Houghton</category>
				
				<category>keys</category>
				
				<pubDate>Sun, 22 Nov 2009 07:25:50 -0700</pubDate>
				<guid>http://www.examiner.com/x-538-Relationship-Examiner~y2009m11d22-What-not-to-discuss-on-Thanksgiving--heres-a-list?cid=exrss-Relationship-Examiner</guid>
				
			</item>
			
		 	
			
			
			
			<item>
				<title>Addiction - the story of Irene Vilar</title>				
				<link>http://www.examiner.com/x-538-Relationship-Examiner~y2009m11d20-Addiction--the-story-of-Irene-Vilar?cid=exrss-Relationship-Examiner</link>
				<description>
				
				
				photo&amp;nbsp;credit:irenevilar.comReviewing books is generally not something most journalists do in their columns on a recurring basis. We do gladly review books for our colleagues and for other professionals we have met in our line work. It is our ple...
				
				
				</description>
				
				<category>addiction</category>
				
				<category>abortion</category>
				
				<category>Irene Vilar</category>
				
				<pubDate>Fri, 20 Nov 2009 05:01:17 -0700</pubDate>
				<guid>http://www.examiner.com/x-538-Relationship-Examiner~y2009m11d20-Addiction--the-story-of-Irene-Vilar?cid=exrss-Relationship-Examiner</guid>
				
			</item>
			
		 	
			
			
			
			<item>
				<title>You&#39;ve grown as a person, he hasn&#39;t - the key to getting your life together in sync</title>				
				<link>http://www.examiner.com/x-538-Relationship-Examiner~y2009m11d18-Youve-grown-as-a-person-he-hasnt--the-key-to-getting-your-life-together-in-sync?cid=exrss-Relationship-Examiner</link>
				<description>
				
				
				photo&amp;nbsp;credit:awilliamhopperBuilding a relationship with someone you love takes time and energy but it is worth the investment. Once you have the basics down pat, life should be comfortable. Occasional arguments and disagreements notwithstanding,...
				
				
				</description>
				
				<category>relationships</category>
				
				<category>Kristen Houghton</category>
				
				<category>individual</category>
				
				<pubDate>Wed, 18 Nov 2009 15:01:23 -0700</pubDate>
				<guid>http://www.examiner.com/x-538-Relationship-Examiner~y2009m11d18-Youve-grown-as-a-person-he-hasnt--the-key-to-getting-your-life-together-in-sync?cid=exrss-Relationship-Examiner</guid>
				
			</item>
			
		 	
			
			
			
			<item>
				<title>The real key to happy holidays</title>				
				<link>http://www.examiner.com/x-538-Relationship-Examiner~y2009m11d16-The-real-key-to-happy-holidays?cid=exrss-Relationship-Examiner</link>
				<description>
				
				
				Thanksgiving on a tropical isle? Christmas Eve watching fireworks over the Caribbean? At a ski lodge in front of a fireplace on New Year&amp;rsquo;s Day?&amp;nbsp; Spending the holidays relaxing instead of stressed? Yes!! &amp;nbsp;The key to spending a stress-f...
				
				
				</description>
				
				<category>couples</category>
				
				<category>in-laws</category>
				
				<category>Thanksgiving</category>
				
				<category>Kristen Houghton</category>
				
				<pubDate>Mon, 16 Nov 2009 17:02:19 -0700</pubDate>
				<guid>http://www.examiner.com/x-538-Relationship-Examiner~y2009m11d16-The-real-key-to-happy-holidays?cid=exrss-Relationship-Examiner</guid>
				
			</item>
			
		 	
			
			
			
			<item>
				<title>Military Spouses: How to Cope With Stress</title>				
				<link>http://www.examiner.com/x-538-Relationship-Examiner~y2009m11d15-Military-Spouses-How-to-Cope-With-Stress?cid=exrss-Relationship-Examiner</link>
				<description>
				
				
				photo credit: Fort Hood SentinelA project close to Michelle Obama&apos;s heart is the well-being of military spouses. She has held roundtable discussions where she has listened &amp;nbsp;to the personal stories of military spouses at Fort Bragg, women and men...
				
				
				</description>
				
				<category>Michelle Obama</category>
				
				<category>Kristen Houghton</category>
				
				<category>military wives</category>
				
				<pubDate>Sun, 15 Nov 2009 16:09:38 -0700</pubDate>
				<guid>http://www.examiner.com/x-538-Relationship-Examiner~y2009m11d15-Military-Spouses-How-to-Cope-With-Stress?cid=exrss-Relationship-Examiner</guid>
				
			</item>
			
		 	
			
			
			
			<item>
				<title>Choosing the right charity - Everything&apos;s Personal, Nothing&apos;s Sacred</title>				
				<link>http://www.examiner.com/x-538-Relationship-Examiner~y2009m11d13-Choosing-the-right-charity--Everythings-Personal-Nothings-Sacred?cid=exrss-Relationship-Examiner</link>
				<description>
				
				
				As the holiday season makes it&apos;s inevitable way towards us, I am barraged daily by charities. By mail, at the supermarket, by phone; everyone has a cause that needs my money. All of the causes are good ones, from helping to prevent children&amp;rsquo;s d...
				
				
				</description>
				
				<category>holidays</category>
				
				<category>Kristen Houghton</category>
				
				<category>charities</category>
				
				<pubDate>Fri, 13 Nov 2009 05:09:53 -0700</pubDate>
				<guid>http://www.examiner.com/x-538-Relationship-Examiner~y2009m11d13-Choosing-the-right-charity--Everythings-Personal-Nothings-Sacred?cid=exrss-Relationship-Examiner</guid>
				
			</item>
			
		 	
			
			
			
			<item>
				<title>Marrying your best friend&apos;s ex</title>				
				<link>http://www.examiner.com/x-538-Relationship-Examiner~y2009m11d11-Marrying-your-best-friends-ex?cid=exrss-Relationship-Examiner</link>
				<description>
				
				
				photo credit:istock.wowowowRemember back in high school when your best friend broke up with a boy you liked? All that agonizing about what you would do if that boy asked you out?How long should you wait after the break-up before you could let him kno...
				
				
				</description>
				
				<category>marrying your best friend&apos;s ex</category>
				
				<pubDate>Wed, 11 Nov 2009 15:51:00 -0700</pubDate>
				<guid>http://www.examiner.com/x-538-Relationship-Examiner~y2009m11d11-Marrying-your-best-friends-ex?cid=exrss-Relationship-Examiner</guid>
				
			</item>
			
		 	
			
			
			
			<item>
				<title>A happiness key for a successful relationship with yourself</title>				
				<link>http://www.examiner.com/x-538-Relationship-Examiner~y2009m11d9-Happiness-keys-to-a-successful-relationship-with-yourself?cid=exrss-Relationship-Examiner</link>
				<description>
				
				
				photo credit:awilliamhopperphotographyMy friend meteorologist John Elliott of CBS news reminded me today that this week has been designated as The Pursuit of Happiness Week.&amp;nbsp;This makes it a perfect time to use the &amp;nbsp;happiness key that &amp;nbsp;...
				
				
				</description>
				
				<category>Kristen Houghton</category>
				
				<category>self-help</category>
				
				<category>Happiness Week</category>
				
				<pubDate>Mon, 09 Nov 2009 15:32:09 -0700</pubDate>
				<guid>http://www.examiner.com/x-538-Relationship-Examiner~y2009m11d9-Happiness-keys-to-a-successful-relationship-with-yourself?cid=exrss-Relationship-Examiner</guid>
				
			</item>
			
		 	
			
			
			
			<item>
				<title>The Happiness Keys - living successfully</title>				
				<link>http://www.examiner.com/x-538-Relationship-Examiner~y2009m11d8-The-Happiness-Keys--living-successfully?cid=exrss-Relationship-Examiner</link>
				<description>
				
				
				What exactly are &amp;copy;Happiness Keys? Doors need to be unlocked; so does happiness. Sometimes a lock is so rusted that it takes a tremendous effort to clean away the rust so the key can turn properly. And sometimes you have the wrong key and you hav...
				
				
				</description>
				
				<category>happiness</category>
				
				<category>Michelle Obama</category>
				
				<category>Sandra Bullock</category>
				
				<category>happiness keys</category>
				
				<pubDate>Sun, 08 Nov 2009 08:49:47 -0700</pubDate>
				<guid>http://www.examiner.com/x-538-Relationship-Examiner~y2009m11d8-The-Happiness-Keys--living-successfully?cid=exrss-Relationship-Examiner</guid>
				
			</item>
			
		 	
			</channel></rss>