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				<title>Happy holidays</title>				
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	I will most likely be out until the new year, so happy holidays! I hope by then the publishing tool will be better with images, like it was previously (I&amp;#39;ll be able to place images within in the article and as many as I wish).

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				<title>Dating cor continued</title>				
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	(This post goes along with the previous one and should be together but I can only include one image per post, which automatically ends up at the top of the post. Again, I&amp;#39;m hoping Examiner will correct this feature soon.)

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				<pubDate>Sat, 12 Dec 2009 11:17:54 -0700</pubDate>
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				<title>Dating cor&apos;s - continued excerpt from &quot;choice - the meaning of life&quot;</title>				
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	Before we get started, been another busy week. The vlog/blog for Choice - The Meaning of Life will be set to debut soon, although the debut will be set for next year. The site for the new kids&amp;#39; book is up and I could use feedback: www.superfla...
				
				
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				<pubDate>Sat, 12 Dec 2009 11:11:01 -0700</pubDate>
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				<title>The cor in dating - excerpt of &quot;choice - the meaning of life&quot;</title>				
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	If you&amp;rsquo;re looking for this chapter to go on and on about the trials and tribulations of dating and relationships, only to then surmise with a hearty &amp;ldquo;in the end, you&amp;rsquo;re better off if you just be yourself,&amp;rdquo; skip it. I mean i...
				
				
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				<pubDate>Thu, 03 Dec 2009 11:57:42 -0700</pubDate>
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				<title>Instigators in the cor-system</title>				
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	(Continuation, excerpted from Choice - The Meaning of Life.)

	Okay, we&amp;rsquo;ve diagramed the COR. Now what? The second-half of Newton&amp;rsquo;s First Law of Motion states, &amp;ldquo;An object in motion tends to stay in motion with the same speed an...
				
				
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				<pubDate>Tue, 24 Nov 2009 12:24:49 -0700</pubDate>
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				<title>The COR</title>				
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	The last couple days have been hectic. I&amp;#39;ve been setting up the site and blog for one of the new books and downloading software to convert swf to avi, so that I can post the videos on Wordpress. In the process, I somehow lost sound on my compu...
				
				
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				<pubDate>Thu, 12 Nov 2009 10:57:28 -0700</pubDate>
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				<title>Basic life concept questions (blc&apos;s)</title>				
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	All right, now that I&amp;#39;ve shared the intro to the book, it&amp;#39;s time to start to share the COR-system. This is the system to use to make decisions. The system can be applied to anything, including dating and relationships. Start by answering y...
				
				
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				<pubDate>Tue, 03 Nov 2009 12:47:05 -0700</pubDate>
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				<title>Excerpt #2 from new book</title>				
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	Backtracking some, while I was busily applying my choice-making process to all aspects of my life, I got a strong urge to write a novel. (This occurred roughly five years before I wrote God is a Woman: Dating Disasters.) I used my decision-making ...
				
				
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				<pubDate>Tue, 27 Oct 2009 11:16:37 -0700</pubDate>
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				<title>Latest cosmo article</title>				
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	The cover of the latest &lt;em&gt;Cosmo&lt;/em&gt; asks, &amp;quot;What do men think during sex?&amp;quot; (Again.) Really? A whole article for &amp;quot;Whoop-eee!! I can&amp;#39;t believe this is happening!&amp;quot;&lt;/p&gt;
				
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				<pubDate>Mon, 26 Oct 2009 12:07:35 -0700</pubDate>
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	So this column has moved quite a bit away from what it was originally supposed to be (50 Things You Don&amp;#39;t Know About Every Guy). It will get back to that at some point but there are more important items to discuss ahead of such things. I just ...
				
				
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				<pubDate>Wed, 21 Oct 2009 22:56:46 -0700</pubDate>
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				Flickr image from threedaymonkLast week was National Singles Week. (I was out on too many dates to post... as far as you know...) I was inundated with emails about various surveys and stats about singles. If you&apos;ve read God, you know I can&apos;t stand su...
				
				
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				<pubDate>Wed, 30 Sep 2009 16:58:33 -0700</pubDate>
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				For those who don&apos;t know, this is my book. A USC film grad student and fan asked if he could film part of it for his project. Of course, I told him he could and actually had the scene he wanted already written as part of a screenplay. He filmed the &amp;...
				
				
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				<pubDate>Tue, 01 Sep 2009 12:02:46 -0700</pubDate>
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				Don&apos;t know; no credit for on web.Woman are always commenting that guys are clueless; yet, despite this realization, the fairer sex certainly performs acts that would make you think women think we men are not just clueless--we&apos;re mind readers!Ah, no. ...
				
				
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				<pubDate>Wed, 26 Aug 2009 10:59:59 -0700</pubDate>
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				<title>Vacation</title>				
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				<!--  -->&lt;p&gt;I&apos;ve been traveling a lot and will be in Nova Scotia the next two weeks. (Lots of camping and stuff; no computers.) When I get back, I&apos;ll be back from my vacation here, too. Cool? Cool. Until then.&lt;/p&gt;
				
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				<title>Do you sleep with people you like?</title>				
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				This is a pretty simple, short notion; yet, I don&apos;t think it really gets much real thought.Women will ask me why am so good in bed. It always somewhat puzzles me. I&apos;m not good or bad in bed, as far as I know. The last woman I slept with asked me, onc...
				
				
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				<pubDate>Thu, 09 Jul 2009 22:03:40 -0700</pubDate>
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				<title>5) We&apos;re everywhere</title>				
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				Carla Michele on flickr5) Have you just given up on meeting the right guy or even a guy? Do you feel as hopeless as this jogger? Do you want to just throw in the towel? Please... shut up!It drives men crazy when women complain they can&apos;t meet a guy. ...
				
				
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				<pubDate>Tue, 23 Jun 2009 21:59:32 -0700</pubDate>
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				One reason I haven&apos;t been writing too much here these days is because I keep getting invited to do guest posts at other places. (What can I say? People keep inviting me to write posts.) But that doesn&apos;t mean you can&apos;t read me somewhere. Here&apos;s the la...
				
				
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				<pubDate>Mon, 22 Jun 2009 20:58:05 -0700</pubDate>
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				The logo says it all!Good question. Busy is pretty much the only answer. God was voted a best teen/tween book recently and I did some tips for the &amp;quot;Toilet Paper Entrepenuer.&amp;quot;http://www.radicalparenting.com/2009/06/15/50-best-books-for-teens...
				
				
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				Do you make good or bad choices? Do you feel like you don&apos;t have any choices? Do you know how to change that feeling; how to make good choices? My new site is up--it will display motivational speeches I create as flash presentations. The first one is...
				
				
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				<pubDate>Wed, 27 May 2009 00:21:00 -0700</pubDate>
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				&amp;nbsp;(Continued from last week; the rest of the interview with Alan Roger Currie. Alan is the author of the popular paperback Mode One: Let The Women Know What You&apos;re REALLY Thinking, as well as his most recent paperback, Upfront and Straightforward...
				
				
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				<pubDate>Tue, 19 May 2009 23:30:56 -0700</pubDate>
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